- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
One of my close friends (who is getting married the weekend after me…) has a shower (we all thought it was a bachelorette party because of the way she verbalized it). We found out it was a shower because of the way the invite was worded and that the groom’s name was on it. Additionally, the way it was verbalized made it seem like, “we’re not inviting most of you going to this shower but we just want your presents.” There are about 40-50 people invited to the wedding and about the same amount of people who are not invited to the wedding are attending the shower. I’m basically getting the message of: “give me presents” and for me, “give me presents even though you’re going to my wedding but I’m not going to yours.”
I am just really annoyed and angry. Someone talk some sense into me.