(Closed) just thinking

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Kudos to you you! Best of luck. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I know I definitely had that feeling after a similar experience. Good for you for taking steps so that you feel wonderful about yourself! Just a simple haircut can make such a difference when you’re getting back on your feet.

I followed all of your posts regarding the situation, and I have to say that you have been an inspiration for a lot of women on this board who have suffered from similar heartaches.

It takes such courage to say enough is enough!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Good for you!!!  I too followed your other post about leaving him.

We live our lives not only by what makes sense in our heads, but also what our hearts tell us, and you’re at no fault for doing so.  It makes you human and loving!!  I do agree, it’s tough to balance making (relationship) decisions when it comes to both heart and head!

P.S. You should definitely still be on the boards!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Good for you!! I think its great you are doing some things for yourself and feeling empowered.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

“I’m still in the stages of thinking back as to why I choose to believe the lies that were right in front of me.”

I think we’ve all been through that. I reread an old journal recently and realized that I was miserable at six months into a relationship that lasted nearly five-and-a-half years. I think it’s awesome that there’s been no tears since you ended it. That means that you made the right decision. And I also think it’s wonderful that you recognize what was not right with your relationship (even if you do feel like kicking yourself for putting up with it for so long). If you can see it now, then you’re learning from it.

Congratulations? That doesn’t sound right, but I can’t think of any other way to say it. I know we’ve never met, but I’m kind of proud of you.

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