(Closed) Just… venting

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

*hugs* Or he is too shy to tell you what he is thinking. 

OR he was thinking “take you out to dinner” when really he was thinking “Buy out the whole resurutant, have an amazing meal and propose to you” but didn’t say it out loud.

Hopefully this made sense, I’ve had three large glasses of wine, it makes sense to me. 😛  

Post # 4
1165 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well, to be fair, you asked him what the FIRST thing he’d do would be. Maybe he was taking you literally?

Post # 5
3639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@valintine:  Great point. Like, that evening he takes you out to a fancy dinner to celebrate. 

Post # 7
633 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

That would be the first thing I would do! Go out to eat a nice dinner while we discuss our plans for the rest of the money! It sound like he was being silly, trying to be extra sweet about the fact that he would rather take you on a date than do something extravagant! I would have been like, “Nice one, cheeseball, but what would you do NEXT?”

Post # 8
4439 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@JFay:  +1

Post # 9
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’d really try to not be upset about it…would you rather he say that he’s go buy himself some sports car or something? Because I’m sure a lot of guys would, at least his answer involved you somewhat! You asked him a question that could’ve had about a thousand different answers, and he did not pick the exact specific one you were looking for – that doesn’t say anything about your relationship or how he feels about you, it just says that the guy isn’t psychic! Most guys don’t take well to hints – if you want to discuss marriage or the future with them, you have to be more direct about it.

Post # 10
12250 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

He could be one of those people who don’t like hypotheticals! If you ask my Fiance or my Mom where they would live if they could live anywhere in the world, the BOTH say “I don’t know. I haven’t been everywhere in the world.”

Post # 11
13 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

You’re over thinking things. I think that’s a nice thing to say. x

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