(Closed) Just Venting

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@Taylor14:  It’s understandable that your feelings were hurt but look at the bright side, being a MOH also comeo with many responsibilities! Also, there was probably some Family pressure involved in your friend’s decision….

Post # 4
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839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Taylor14:  I know that I’m three months late to the party but I’m really sorry that this is happening to you. I was really hurt when a close friend of mine didn’t ask me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. This is one of those situations where it’s really wasy for other people to tell you to get over yourself, but I think you have a right to be hurt. As long as you keep it to yourself and gracefully accept your BM position that is. I think it was a little onconsiderate of your friend to tell you that she considered you as MOH but passed you up (who wants to hear that?) but maybe she was trying to tell you that she considers you important enough to her to be a candidate? It does sound like there was a familial obligation here like a PP said. She probably felt that it would be rude to have one sister and not the other. 

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