Just venting…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Why does he keep cancelling the wedding?

Post # 4
1343 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Im sorry dear! All this stress and backwards steps can only mean youre due for some good luck! Im not sure why he keeps canceling the wedding though, i hope for financial reasons and not emotional! Take deep breaths!

Post # 6
1574 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

HOw would you feel about eloping, or having a small wedding? Also, if it helps relieve your mind at all, most ulcers are not caused by stress. I’m dealing with ulcers (again, ugh). My ulcers have either been caused by a bacteria (h.pylori) or NSAIDs. I genuinely hope that you aren’t getting ulcers, as they suck. Further, while it is lousy that you no longer have your honeymoon budget, is there any chance you two could take a few days to just go to a bed and breakfast, or even overnight somewhere nearby? We were unable to take a honeymoon due to my health issues, his work and school situation (full time work, full time grad school, and clinicals – even in summer), and we wanted to have a nice trip, so we’re waiting til next year and going to Scotland and England.

That said, sometimes when it rains, it pours. I feel like that’s true for my life – either it’s all rainbows, sunshine,and people randomly bursting into song or… about eight things going wrong at once. My mom told me that your first year married is the hardest, and the last few weeks have been quite rough on us. I allow myself to wallow once in a while, but I try to not get too caught up in it. Anytime lots of things go wrong, I list three things I’m happy for or that went well that day. And every night that we’re together, my partner and I try to each say one thing that was positive that day. It may not work for everyone, but it’s worked well for me.

Post # 7
61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I feel your pain!  This morning this quote came to me at the right time:

“If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” -MLK Jr

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