Post # 1
I have been TTc for almost 2 years now. And this girl from work is pregnan with twins. She knows my struggles. She knows all the food I havebenn avoiding or eating to increase my chances and all the care I take with my health and it is like she does that to stick it to my face: every sinlge time she is eating something she says: “Opsssssssss, not getting my veggies today” or ‘ Ohhhhhhhh, I am bad ain’t I, eating this junk food! Poor twins!!!”.
I just smile and leave every time. Why does she do that???
Post # 3
@sheilamelo: Wow. I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this, I know TTC is hard enough without someone rubbing it in your face. She sounds like an insensitive jerk. ((HUGS)) That really sucks, I guess all you can do is walk away and avoid her as much as possible.
If you care enough to confront her you may wish to bring up the fact of her insensitivity by letting her know how her thoughtless comments affect you. Then again, it may not be worth your time. Ugh, some people!!
Post # 4
I don’t honestly see how her making those comments is directed at you?
Post # 5
She probably isn’t doing it on purpose. Fiance and I were TTC for a year and a half and every little comment pissed me off. I had to learn that its just my emotions messing with me.
Post # 6
@eeniebeans: This. I think you may be being oversensitive. I doubt she’s saying these things just to get at you.
Post # 7
Maybe she’s just happy to be pregnant and enjoys talking about it?
There’s a good chance this isn’t about you and your struggles and is only about her happiness at the two lives she carries inside her.
Post # 8
I doubt she is saying those things to get you upset. Maybe she feels like you might be judging her for what she is eating if you are really open about a special diet for TTC.
Post # 9
I don’t think she’s doing anything “to you”
Post # 10
Aw, I really don’t think she means to do this on purpose. I don’t think she understands just how sensitive you are to these comments. I really wouldn’t take it to heart. I’m really sorry you’re going through this, I know how hard something like this can be. I’m not trying to become a mother just yet but I did have a miscarriage about a year ago and my friend got pregnant almost right after and some of her comments were hurtful but I knew she had no idea it hurt me. It’ll be okay (hugs).