(Closed) Just wanted to let you guys know I was thinking about you!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee

Things are much more positive in my household without mentioning weddings, too!

Post # 4
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Helper bee

Thanks Texaslawgirl! It’s hard but I am holding true to the challenge!

Post # 5
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Newbee

I didn’t know about this, but now I’m on board too.  So wait, what do we do if our guys start talking about it?  Smile and say ok? 🙂

Post # 6
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Worker bee

I havent said a word either! We are doing so well ladies! Noornoor what i do when he talks about it is nod and smile….agree or disagree that kind of stuff but i dont continue on the conversation!

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

😀 Things here have been decent too since I have stopped talking about it… I am actually focussing on what to get him for his birthday and have it be a surprise more than anything else lol!!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

It’s going good for me too…if he brings it up I answer any questions he asks, and other than that I just smile and nod! Works great, and its getting easier!

Post # 9
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Worker bee

I’m so happy my one little post is having such a positive effect!  It’s been a big help for me, too.

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

@BW4606: YOU ROCK!! I doubt if I’ll be getting my bling anytime soon lol… we are out of LOTS of cash from our deposits etc after moving into our new place even though we recouped a fair bit from craigslist (gotta love it!!)  Although M’s best friend and I were chatting and he said that I needed to chat with his wife (she works at Zale’s) about jewelry that I wanted (I’m in the market for a pair of vintage drop earrings for christmas)

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Aww how sweet! Thanks for the positive reinforcement! We girls gotta stick together!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Thanks for the great idea, our home is peaceful one again. I was surprised that even I would feel better not talking about a ring and when I am happy he is happy. It’s a win win for today at leastWink

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

hey girls i did the same thing this last summer!!  and what do you know he proposed the end of july!!  not to mention it cut our bickering in HALF, we’ve been dating over 4 1/2 years!) he told me that he had the ring awhile but said when we talked about getting engaged all the time it took the “surprise” factor out, and he always knew he wanted me to be surprised!  stay strong girls, i think you’ll be pleased w/the results!  keep us posted!

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

@nurseamanda: thanks so much for the statement. today i made rather pointed comments about having a BOYFRIEND. we were teasing and tickling listening to the saints game and my comment was wow it’s fun being here with my BOYFRIEND. and i forget what else i said about a BOYFRIEND. i don’t think he got the hint, but it sure did make me feel better lol!!!

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@crebre- too funny!

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

@corgitales: it’s been a rough day today and i still haven’t brought it up (shocking!!) but i suppose every time i think of it i will now refer to him as the BOYFRIEND and that will be my way of bringing it up without bringing it up. but i think i saw a dress today that could be the dress if i tried it on (one of the bridal salons here is having a bid on dresses for the breast cancer awareness bridal show).. sigh.. it made me sad and angry at the same time, but i didn’t bring it up…. however i will be having chili nachos and extra sour cream for dinner and stuffing my face so that i won’t fall off the wagon again during the challenge!!

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