Post # 1
I have to write this somewhere. I write in my blog, but most of my readers are married, so they really don’t know or remember.
Anywho. I was completely fine two weeks ago, but lately I’ve gotten crazed. I thought I’d be worried about the house all this time, planting bulbs, and I am, but I’m just to the point where I straight up told Papa Bear if I don’t have a ring on my finger by _____(the deadline HE gave me for when he will propose by) midnight we are gonna have a talk.
I’m so ashamed I did that, but I’m just going crazy. He needs to get this show on the road. For real.
I had to plan a housewarming to get my planning out that I want to do for this TBD wedding date!
Thanks for listening to my vent. 🙁
Post # 3
Don’t be ashamed. I think we all ‘snap’ at some point. I snapped about a month ago, and his timeframe (when HE said that he’d have money for a ring) was January.
Men need a shock of reality sometimes. At first you might feel bad, but trust me, you’ll sleep much better knowing that your b/f knows how you really feel. I kept my feelings bottled up for so long until I finally snapped and sobbed to him at 4am one night. Best thing I ever did. I felt horrible at first, but it felt so good to get it off my chest. AND, it showed him that I was serious. I MEANT BUSINESS. I told my b/f that I was considering moving out (which I was… I picked up apartment rental magz and everything) because he assured me that when we moved in together things would ‘pick up’ with regards to our relationship… They didn’t. And now that I expressed how I felt, we have a timeline.
Don’t feel bad. If you feel the need to, you can apologise. But make sure you tell him that you meant what you said.
Post # 4
What was his response? Don’t feel bad
Post # 5
Aww definately don’t feel bad. Sometimes guy just need that little push, because otherwise they don’t realize how important it is to us. Maybe this will do the trick?
Post # 6
Thanks.He took it as me being serious, but not mean. I was just worried I was becoming one of those women who tells their men “we’re getting married and you better step it up!”
I just get so tired of people asking when we will get married too. Ppl never ask him. I sent housewarming invites and I kept getting will wedding invites follow? Yes, I know I’m not married, thanks for the reminder!argh!
He said it will be done by then and I need to be patient. I tried to describe waiting to him like waiting for a cool computer/car gadget that he may want, but he was just like he is patient. I wanted to hit him.LOL He doesn’t even understand.
Post # 7
Oh we all have these moments! As long as it isn’t every day, I am sure your boy will take it in the right way! When they are dragging their feet and frustrating us, they kind of need to know – otherwise the feelings will just get worse.
It sounds like he has got a plan though, so hopefully he steps it up soon!