Post # 1
Ok, so my bridesmaids are SUPER obsessed with keeping me in the dark with the shower planning and it is driving me crazy! They refuse to give me any details and include me in any of the planning even after I told them I want to be involved and so it’s making me feel left out of my own wedding! A few of them have caved and invited me to some planning parties but one just keeps telling me I’m not allowed to know, and the others all agree she is being unresonable. What should I do?
Post # 3
You’re really not supposed to be involved with planning the bridal shower or the bachelorette party. These are parties that are being thrown FOR you, and you don’t typically throw parties for yourself. I didn’t know anything about my bachelorette party or shower. I planned my sister’s shower, and it was a suprise, although she knew the date, and her bach party is a surprise as well.
Post # 4
I was told the date and time just because of my crazy work schedule. You shouldn’t know anything besides that.
Post # 5
@molliemander05: You should enjoy the fact that your girls love you enough to do all this for you 🙂