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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    So, I was thinking about keeping the processional music a secret from my fiance. (Like, the part of it where I walk down [or up?!] the aisle with my father to meet him at the altar).

    Is this crazy? For some reason I just want him to be surprised because the piece that I'm considering is way epic, imho, both in title and in pomp. :p

     

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I think that's really a great idea!! so it would be an entirely new experience for him (new isn't the exact word i'm looking for, but you get my gist, he'd be surprised by everything, seeing you in your dress, hearing the music, the entire experience would be amazing.)

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    That sounds cool! I think it would be a nice touch. = )

     
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    Not crazy at all.  It sounds really sweet and thoughtful.

    Of course now you must share which song you're thinking about.

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    Lol, okay, y'all might think I'm a total loon.

    It's Arrival of the Queen of Sheba from Handel's Solomon.

    When I reminded my mother of the song, she about fell over out of YES YES YES.We would hire horns and woodwinds just because of this song. We already have violins and a cello. So yeah, it would be like big surprise... WHERE DID ALL THESE INSTRUMENTS COME FROM! lol

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-TGKJ9MgCOQ

     
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    jocelyn3476       New Jersey

    That sounds so cool!  I love a grand entrance.  But be prepared that after the wedding, if you ask him about it, he might not really remember the specifics.  That moment of the wedding is such a blur!  Really grand music will make for such a great feeling for both of you, but just remember that he will probably be so blown away seeing you that he might be a little dopey about recalling the music later.

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    That's what I was hoping. :p

     
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    Ireland    August 7, 2010   Faulkton, SD

    My FI knows the music at the church but I'm keeping our first dance a secret from him haha

     
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    arizonabride    June 2, 2010   Tucson, AZ

    Great idea! It shouldn't be too hard to keep this under wraps. My FI is pretty involved and I don't think he would even think to ask about the processional.

     
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    gidgett    March 13, 2010   Nashville

    I think that would be oh-mazing! Truly epic. :) It makes me think of Keira Knightley's wedding in Love Actually when there are all these musicians popping out of the pews like daisies.

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    I think that'd be perfect! And pretty easy to keep a secret. I think it would make for a wonderful moment. 

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    @gidgett- Helloooo my inspiration! We're not allowed to have secular music, or you'd better believe that there would be something like that at our wedding.

     

    I really am glad you guys don't think I'm weird for thinking of doing this.

    I'm pretty sure ceremony music will be an easy thing for me to surprise him with. Or ceremony stuff in general. I'm good at being sneaky. :)

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    If you are a good secret keeper, yes!  I am terrible at it (esp from my FI so it wouldn't pan out...) lol.

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I love the idea, and I would have done it if I could have kept my mouth shut. ;) But I wanted his approval!

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    I'm a terrible secret-keeper, but hey, I could try? :p

     
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    twohearts    June 2010  

    I love secret wedding details!!  So I think you should definitely do it.  Just make sure to have a stand-in for the rehearsal, if you're planning to practice with musical cues. Fun idea!! :)

     
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    Mrs. Dee to Bee    January 30, 2010   Louisville, KY (Wedding in TX)

    Are you doing a "first look" with him before the ceremony? If not, it might be a bit much for him to take in all at once. Seeing you for the first time, his wedding day, the music, wondering where all the instruments came from. I absolutely LOVE the idea and think you should do it, but if you aren't doing a "first look" I'd at least entertain the possibility of one. 

     
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    ceamoste    September 3, 2011  

    i looooove that song. one of my favourite classical pieces by far, and an awesome choice! congratulations :)

     
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    SoonToBeMrsV    July 3, 2010  

    love it!!

     

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