Kicked my MOH out of wedding…

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@bebefv:  At what point did you kick her out?  If I was her, I would take that as a sign you didn’t want to continue being close friends.  Maybe you need to take a breather from this relationship.

Post # 5
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2103 posts
Buzzing bee

@Polygon:  

@bebefv:  You stated that you didn’t want to be friends with her. You essentially “broke up” with her. Of course she’s going to be bitter and upset. I’m normally against kicking out an attendant but this had to happen. She was being an awful person towards you.

I’m not sure what “boundaries” you’re talking about though.. 

Post # 7
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1627 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

A bridal party is a great honor. Have those you love and respect and the feeling is mutual in yiur wedding party. Since she is still with your husband’s roommate expect to see her on your wedding.

Post # 8
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240 posts
Helper bee

Eh, sounds a little dramatic on both of your parts. The Christmas gift thing really wasn’t an “incident” – except that you’re making it a big thing. But she’s compounding it by being unresponsive and a bad communicator. Kicking out of a bridal party is a bit…dramatic, but it’s done. I wouldn’t expect the friendship to recover though.

Post # 9
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46 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Moraz:  I agree I think this whole thing is a little dramatic.  But you’ve kicked her out, what’s done is done…but, yes, the friendship is over.

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