- 3 years ago
Okay I’m going to try to make this very long story as short as possible. I asked a friend from high school to be in my wedding (I had been in hers 5 years ago, and I thought it was only right) however since since we graduated high school and went off to college we drifted a lot. I graduated, she got pregnant, got married, and dropped out and our paths never really crossed much but we attempted to stay in contact with each other. When it came to dress shopping for my wedding she was MIA and finally bought a dress just to tell me a week later that she was pregnant and I had to buy her a new dress because she wouldn’t be able to afford a new one (why didn’t she take that into consideration when she went shopping when she was already 8 weeks along is beyond me). I refused, since I refused to buy her a new dress, she refused to do anything for my bridal shower saying she was having money problems and didn’t have money to spare and wasn’t even sure that she would still be in the wedding knowing that her dress wouldn’t fit and couldn’t afford a new one so she didn’t think she needed to help with the shower. Okay, fine I turned the other way until she started on drama on Facebook ( I know of all places /things to do) she was talking about me directly on facebook and then posted that she was going to a pot convention and if she did show up to my wedding she would do it high because she bought the best pot ever and our wedding would probably suck anyway ( My fiance and I are against doing drugs, he’s a teacher and my birth was a drug addict, I don’t want anything to do with people like that) That was the point that I kicked her out of the wedding. I wasn’t exactly nice about it, but I didn’t yell at her either. I told her I didn’t appreciate what she was doing, what she was saying about me, and the immautirty of it all. As soon as that happened she was messaging my other bridesmaids and causing a lot of drama with them and dragging all of her other friends into the situation and having them text me bitching me out because I was a “shitty friend” and then she had the nerve to tell her family that I kicked her out of the wedding because she’s pregnant. So of course that caused more unwanted drama. I’m really good friends with most of her family, and my fiance thinks because some of her family members are still invited to the wedding she should be as well. I don’t think I can trust her, and I need advice. Thanks!