Kicking out a bridesmaid, should I invite her to the wedding still?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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43 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’m in a similar situation (she backed out) and don’t know what to do either. I think our friendship is pretty much over. 

Post # 3
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320 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015 - Old Mill Boathouse

Honestly if it were me, I’d not invite her and cut my losses.

People like that are so poisonous and it’s not worth the stress, it took me a long time it understand that, but I’m so much better of for it.

 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

So wait … she’s pregnant, but she still gets high regularly?

Sounds like a peach.

I wouldn’t invite her. Nobody needs a friend like that.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

I think you’d be better off not inviting her, she doesn’t sound like the most stable of individuals, and I know that I’d be stressed about whether she’d cause a scene at the wedding. Even if she doesn’t cause a scene but makes snarky comments or acts immaturely, you don’t need that at your wedding. Good luck!

Post # 6
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299 posts
Helper bee

Hold on, hold on! I need to get this straight: SHE’S PREGNANT AND THREATENING TO SHOW UP AT YOUR WEDDING HIGH?! ……………….I would cut her out of my life completely- block her on facebook and do not invite her to your wedding! And if she keeps finding ways to harass you I’d threaten to call CPS on her.

Post # 7
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792 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Don’t bother inviting her; the friendship is over and frankly, she sounds like a crazy person. Just tell her you think it’s best if you go your own ways and you wish her the best with her baby. If she’s willing to start trouble in a public arena like your Facebook, who knows what she’ll say to your relatives given the chance. 

Post # 9
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6896 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I personally would not invite her or continue the friendship. Sorry you are going through this!

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Post # 10
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134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015 - The Biltmore Ballrooms

Hot boiling mess. I think you were nice to invite her to be part of the WP.. but you should block her from attending. And have folks on the look out for her on the day of.  And if she’s pregs and going to a pot convention then….. yea, you must moe on from the friendship in general.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

And you want to invite her to your wedding why? 

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