- 9 years ago
I know this is like beating a dead horse, it’s been hashed out on these boards many times but I’m really frustrated. My fiance and I sent out our invites a few weeks ago. We formated our RSVP cards to say the name of the guest and a box to check if they’re coming or not. I thought it was a fool proof method for our adults only wedding. WRONG!! My cousin called my MOM (whose not even hosting the wedding as it clearly states on the invite) this weekend and asked if she and her sister could bring their kids (4 total) my mom said sure! First off why would my cousin call my mom? Second off HELLO the invite only has your husband and your name on it, why would you call to ask if your kids can come? I told my mom she needed to call her back to tell her no they can’t come. She said she wasn’t going to do that. *SIGH* Here I am getting ready to start a family battle all because people can’t accept a no children guest list. I guess along with this being a vent it’s a question as well. Are all you people with children THAT offended when an invite come in for just you and your spouse? Is it not ok to have a night out without the kids? I don’t have children. Maybe I’m just don’t have any clue at how insensitive I’m being?