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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

    Okay, so, I'm an Admissions Counselor for a private college and part of my job is to contact students in our database that have expressed interest but haven't made a move to actually apply.  Today, I sent an email to prospective students reminding them that our deadline has passed, but we do have rolling admissions continuing until spots fill up.  I received this response from a high school student:

    I never expressed interest in your school.  And there are typos in your email.  You should check that.

    First, I'm totally OCD about grammar, spelling, etc. (I work for a college and I think we should put our best foot forward, ya know), and I read and re-read the email, had it checked by coworkers--there are NO typos.  Second, if there WERE typos, why is it necessary to point it out to me in that manner?  So like I said.  Kids today.... ;)

    Who else wants to vent about their day?

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Wow so rude!  Maybe they don't know how to type and that's why they think it has typos?  They started a sentence with 'and' so I'm not sure how good their grammar is anyway!

     
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    SweetAdelineXO    June 5, 2010   NJ

    @mrsmdphd - that's ridiculous! Sometimes I wish you could strangle people through the computer.

    As for my experience with kids these days, it's St. Patrick's Day and I work in NYC. Need I say more?

     
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    eeh2010    October 16, 2010   Kansas

    Wow, sorry for that crappy e-mail. I'm not justifying his behavior but I can kinda sorta understand a little bit where he's coming from. When I was applying to colleges I was always getting tons and tons of e-mails even after I had told them I wanted to be removed from their list or places where I didn't even express any interes. Maybe he's just feeling overwhelmed by the whole process. Sorry he took it out on you. That stinks.

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    Wow, just... wow.

    I had to yell at 2 little boys in my street the other day for WHACKING ducks with giant sticks. They were hitting them in mid air and then chasing after them hitting them. More so than just kids.... WHERE ARE THE PARENTS! I mean, at 17 and 18 they should know better, but makes you wonder how they were raised. I could never talk like that to anyone, let alone a college admissions person!

     
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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

    @KLP2010 -- OMG.  That is horrendous!  I can't stand animal cruelty.  SERIOUSLY, where are the parents?  Good for you for stopping them!!

    @eeh2010 -- I totally understand that he might be frustrated because he doesn't remember giving us his info, but this is how college admissions and recruiting works, and I remember it well also.  But really--if you get an email from a school you're not interested in, how hard is it to hit delete?  Do you really need to ruin my day?

    Oi.  This is why I'm super glad I'm out of here in less than 2 months!  Grad school here I come!

     
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    KIKI82    October 30, 2010   SoCal

    Rude lil kid! Where I work I have my own office, and usually enter through the back door in the morning from the parking lot. Well 2x I found the same kids getting it on in the back. The first time they just left when they heard my car pulling in the second I told them that they could not be here and gave them the look of shame. I mean how gross! I mean girl have more respect for yourself then to be getting it on with a lil hoodlum in a dirty parking lot! ewww

     
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    Miss Root    07/04/10   Seattle

    So. RUDE!  At least you can hit delete- he's the one stuck being a jerk!

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    Haha. I would have been sorely tempted to say something rude back. That was a complete douche move on his part. I work at VS in a mall and it's Spring Break. The prostitots are out in full force right now. Ugh.

     
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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

    @zippylef - prostitots.  LOLOL.  :-D

    @KIKI82 - SERIOUSLY?  Ick.

     
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    Soon2beeMrsM    October 2010   NY

    That is SO rude. I work at a university where kids drive nicer cars than me and I can't stand listening to them when I go buy my lunch because they talk about how crappy it is that they hate their BMW they wish they had a Lexus or they are going to buy the new ((insert expensive handbag, shoes, clothes here)).

     
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    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    Goodness! This thread makes me happy I don't work with kids, only adults! Although adults can sometimes act like kids in the worst way..

    Did you reply to him/her? That was obviously a snarky attention-getting comment that doesn't really deserve a response, but you could always reply back that you've officially taken him off of the mailing list and have a nice day.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Re: "You have a bad attitude. You should check that. Nobody likes putzes"

    Oh, if only, right? =]

     
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    mimi06d    November 2010   Northern Virginia

    I work at a high school and I often get confused for a student. People always ask me where my hall pass is. So one day while I'm walking to my car, a kid pulled up, rolled down his window, and said something about me being a pretty lady and could he have my number. Okay, no biggie, he thinks I'm a student. 

    "You know I'm a teacher here right?" 

    "Oh. Well that don't matter, you could still give me your number." 

    WTF. What kind of cojones do you have to have to openly hit on a teacher. I advised him to "pull away before I memorize your license plate number and report you to security for harassing a teacher." 

     

     
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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

    @moderndaisy--I did respond, and that's basically what I said.  After I had written a few other choice sentences and deleted them.  If only.

    @ejs--LOVE IT.  I wish!  If today was my last day, and my last day wasn't actually a ways away, I totally would have done it.  ;)

    @mimi06d--whaaaaaaaaaat?? 

     
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    mimi06d    November 2010   Northern Virginia

    Exactly! After he left I just stood on the sidewalk for a minute like, did that just happen?

    You have more self-control then me 'cause I would have emailed the kid back. :)

     
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    hergreenapples    October 23, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    I work in university admissions as well -- I feel your pain! The amount of entitlement is insane! I graduated from undergrad in 2004, so not that long ago, but the attitudes seem to have changed SO much in that time!

    Today alone a prospective student YELLED at a colleague who told her that she will need to take a few chemistry courses as part of her degree (it's a BSc!) and the student said she should be exempt because she took chem in high school (um, so did everyone else...it's required for admission into the program).

    Another student called and told me that it was too much work for her to send us a copy of her high school transcript, so she was wondering if I could do it for her.....WTH?!?!

     
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    Toffee    January 15, 2011   Hayden, Id

    I'm sorry. I always tried to be polite to people I talked with about college and military applications. I know that I got seriously frustrated by the one college that I really want to go to though, because I took all of the tests I needed to take and filled out all kinds of forms and it wasn't until I actually brought the paperwork to the front desk to sign up for classes that they finally let me know that there was 1 year + waiting list for the program.

     
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    Opus    December 23, 2011  

    Wow, what a rude e-mail to send!

    I used to help out with college advising at my old high school, the one thing we always stressed was to be nice and get your own stuff together! Shame that's not common sense.

    These people will learn the hard way when it's time to find jobs. 

     

     
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    hazel920    July 3, 2011   happy engagement land

    Agree.  I wish we can strangle people through computer sometimes.
    My fantasy response would be:

    No typos here. I double checked. (See copy of email below.)
    In the mean time, your attitude needs one.

    =)

     
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    MissGreen    July 2009  

    Kids today are A..holes. I am sorry but they are. They are handed everything on a silver platter because parents want to be best friends and not parents. They are spoiled and have no respect. I know there are some good kids out there before someone jumps down my throat, but there is a huge lack of respect and common courtesy in todays generation. I am 30 and have a 19 yo neice but some of the things she says or thinks things will just be handed to her and the way some of her friends comment on her facebook is pretty disgusting. Maybe that kid thought you had typos because kids today also do not know what proper grammar is, meaning, more and more people are using txt wording in emails (I hate that with a passion) and really do not know how to spell anymore or even what a real conversation outside of texting is!

     
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    silverbrooke    July 24, 2010   Washington, D.C.

    While the use of "And" as a transitional conjunction at the beginning of a sentence is gramatically acceptable, it is typically overused by inexperienced writers.

    Take that shit head.

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    kids are so rude today! I can't believe it. I want to slap some of them that i see walking around!

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    I work with younger kids, so I feel ya, some of them can be such punks!  We have a few where we are counting down the days until they go to middle school because their attitudes are so frustrating!

     
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    knapper08    August 15, 2009   Upstate NY

    I work at a college as well. I cannot believe how irresponsible college students are these days. We have parents driving hours to the campus to make sure their child has enough underwear! It's really sad... I really appreciate the fact that I started working at age 14 and even babysat before that.

     
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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

    @silverbrooke - I just snorted my water.  LOL!

    @MissGreen - I totally agree with you! 

    I don't know who said it on this thread, but someone said that kids applying to college today are completely different than we were when we applied, and it's true.  They really seem to think that we owe them admission to our schools, and they act accordingly.  It's...off-putting...to say the least.

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    Ick. Kids. So. Rude.

    Prime example of why I don't have any yet, and really don't have a SUPER strong desire to. I'm still waiting for it to kick in but so far.. nothing.

    I agree with MissAsB 100%. Correct spelling and grammar is apparently foreign to him/her.

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    lol @ prositots!

    When I was applying for college I made it a point to be nice! I mean, seriously! They should act their age by now!

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    Rude!!! 

    I'm IN college and spent the entire day taking my teacher certification exams - I made the mistake of taking two in one day! So, I had a pretty crappy day too! I'm completely exhausted!

     
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    jduck84    August 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    Definitely rude. I bet he wouldn't say that to your face - he can just hide behind the anonymity of the Internet.

    I don't know, I've worked with kids for the past several years, and while I agree that some of them do have a sense of entitlement and behave poorly, at least they're kids/teenagers, i.e. still "growing up" - or so I hope. Adults behaving poorly, though? No excuse!!

     

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