Post # 1
Fiance is at his bachelor party tonight, before he left at 4:15 I asked where they were going and he wasn’t sure, so I asked him to just shoot me a quick text when he found out (in case he were to never come home I would know where to look.. :)) he said he would. Well now it is 10:15 he still hasn’t texted me and I see on FB they are in Oshkosh which is over an hour away. I am not going to bother him since I know now, but I am a pretty annoyed he didn’t respect my wishes. Am I being silly about it?
Post # 3
He is probably having so much fun he didn’t think about it. I wouldn’t be upset personally, but that’s just me.
Post # 4
Meh, not that big of a deal. I’m sure he’s with a group of guys who can reassure you if there is an emergency.
Post # 5
@LauraandBrad915: I would probably be minorly annoyed if I were home by myself, but just remember he’s out with his guys, and that a lot of people have a “no texting your significant other” rule at these types of things 🙂 I’m sure at your bachelorette you’ll be having so much fun you might be in a similar situation. I’d recommend cracking open a bottle of wine and watching something girly on TV!
Post # 7
If this were a normal Friday night, I might be a little annoyed– but it is his bachelor party. it is ENTIRELY possible his friends took his phone immediately so he couldn’t call or text you. It is supposed to be his last “night off” and all. Give him a break and don’t make a thing of it as long as he doesn’t make it a habit.
Post # 8
@CorgiTales: Yup I agree with this. I even told my Darling Husband I wouldn’t be getting a hold of him on his bachelor party because I wanted him to enjoy his time. He was out at bars and strips clubs and that was fine with me. It’s his one night to have fun with no nagging 🙂
Post # 9
@LauraandBrad915: My mother gave me one piece of advice and I follow it to this day…”go with your first mind”. If you feel upset, those feelings are very valid. I would be annoyed more than pissed. You wanted to know incase something happened, not bc you didn’t trust him. I’m the same way. I always ask my Fiance to let me know where he is so incase something happens, I know where to start.
He needs to understand that it isn’t just him anymore. He has a soon to be wife in his life that deserves the common decentsy to know where he is. You two depend on each other. It’s just a respect thing. That is my huge pet peeve.
Post # 10
No you weren’t overreacting I would have gone ape butt. My issue is its a safety thing like if I hear bar on fire knowing my man was going to bar I’d want to know if it’s the one he was at and if he is ok. I’m sure a friend or hospital would have called but how long would I have not been by his side when he was down. My fiancée has finally been trained to understand it. He now knows all my routes to and from work including alternates. I always call when leaving or working late so if something happens he knows. I forgot to call once to say I was staying late and he called panicking. My schedule alternates so it’s posted on the refrigerator. His schedule is constant and he does the same things I do and I know his routes too. My mom taught me that no matter how busy or how much of a good time you are having never forget someone who loves you is not having such a good time worrying about you because they care.
Post # 11
- Wedding: April 2012 - Padua Hills Theater
I would be annoyed also. I would probably send him a text saying, “Thanks for letting me know where you were going…” Other than that I would let it go.