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- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
I am from CA but am living in CO. My wedding is in CO so I flew to CA last month for my bachelorette party with my good/longest known friends. My friends here couldn’t make it out there for my shin-dig because of $$. One girl offered to plan a bachelorette party for me in Denver (about an hour away). That same girl and I are co-planning a bachelorette party for another friend since all of her BMs are out of state. That party is tomorrow night.
I got a text earlier this week from one of the girls coming tomorrow and she said she won’t be able to stay in the hotel – even though we’ve been planning this for several months. She’s very flaky, so it pissed me off. I talked to her last night and it’s money reasons – I can understand that, but I wish she had figured that out earlier. I can’t cancel or change rooms now, and the rest of us will have to pay more money to spend the night. All of us have expenses right now – girl getting married, me getting married, one person is moving, we’re all flying out of state for the friend’s wedding, etc.
That got me thinking. I feel really bad if I have to throw an extra expense on all of the girls for my bachelorette party next month. I really, really, really want to have an awesome night on the town in Denver, get a hotel, and go to breakfast. I just can’t do that to my friends (or my wallet). I told the girl planning my bachelorette party that I’m cool with having the party locally or canceling it (I’m totally not, by the way…again, don’t want to put my friend’s out financially). My friend emailed me back and said that we can go out to the local bars and spend the night at her house. That will be fine, but I’m still kind of sad. I haven’t been to all of the bars in our town, but it’s a little college town compared to Denver. I have never gone out at night to Denver and I was really, really looking forward to doing so for my bachelorette party. Being an adult sucks! haha…not really, just sometimes the responsibilities 🙂