kind of depressed…

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@eclipse:  I’m really sorry you’re struggling. I don’t know if I missed this but you said you weren’t trying utnil 2014, but you thought you might be pregnant. Does that mean because of your PCOS you don’t use any birth control (sorry that’s invasive). Also how many dpo are you, do you know? I know how it feels to be waiting and to feel ready. It’s hard for a woman sometimes. I think that whether we like it or not, hormonally we really do go through periods of really wanting the baby, even when the timing isn’t right.

Post # 4
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416 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m sorry this wasn’t the time for you.  I think we all have fears that we won’t be able to conceive, since most of us have been preventing pregnancy our whole adult lives.  I was freaking out two months into trying, thinking I was infertile.  There’s no way to know, but think happy thoughts and try not to let it consume you.  Good luck!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@ZoeyGirl:  This. And now you know how much creating a family means to you. I felt the same way as you a year ago when I thought DH and I might be pregnant. We weren’t planning it, but I still got so upset when it turned out negative. Here we are, a year later, and we’re trying for a baby. Even though I’ve been wanting to TTC ever since our negative, now really seems like the best timing, and the year we talked about trying really did go fast in retrospect. 

When I’m feeling down, I look for the good in the situation and consume myself with it. There is good everywhere, it’s just hard to find it sometimes. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@eclipse:  Well I guess the reason I asked the dpo question is because you could have tested too eary, but it’s hard to say. I really hope they are able to get those things taken care of for you =]

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

awe hon I feel your pain, I was hoping for the same this time around!!!  Keep your head up!  I tested 3 days before my cycle today and it came out negative and I’m feeling the same….very depressed.  Now I have a cramping feeling all morning like my cycle is coming. 🙁  I don’t understand it.  I already don’t know when I’m ovalating, (Trying to figure out when I do).  At work and could cry at any second… 🙁

 

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