- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
A preface, my FMIL and I get along very well. I like her a lot and she is very nice. We aren’t particularly very close, but we get along very well.
So..I had an appointment earlier this month to look at accessories and formally try on my dress for my family. I ordered my dress online so we never did the shop thing with my parents and they wanted to do something. So I scheduled an appointment to look at accessories with my mom, FMIL, sister, and BP. Well, I scheduled a date many weeks in advance. As it got closer, FMIL told me she had to work that day. I checked with everyone else and found a new date that she was off. I sent multiple emails to remind people and in person reminded of her when I saw her about a week before.
Well, she no showed the appointment. I called her about 15 minutes after to make sure she was allright, and she said she totally forgot and was sorry she wasn’t going to make it. She actually lives less than 5 minutes away from the shop so I think she still could have came. I wondered if maybe she didn’t want to go or something but wasn’t confrontational. I think she really just forgot and wasn’t prepared to go, but it just annoyed me because I reminded her multiple times. I told FI I was a bit disappointed and I think he didn’t really get it. I haven’t talked to him about it much because I think he doesn’t want me to be mad at her. I’m not mad at her, but just a little hurt. I haven’t talked to her since much…not really on purpose, but because I haven’t seen her.
Thanks for letting me vent, bees.