Sign up   Login  
Bunny's Engaged!
more by Omgbunnies
Would/did you buy a house without having rented?
He asked for my parents' blessing
more in Waiting
Is it possible to die of happiness?
Invitation wording for civilian wedding of military officer?
more in Boards
Are you losing weight while TTC?

Ladies expecting a Christmas proposal, how are you holding up?

posted 4 months ago in Waiting
  •  
    1.
    Member
    1,863 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Omgbunnies    June 13, 2015   New England

    Just like the title says :) if you're expecting a Christmas proposal, we have 5 days left, how are you holding up? Excited? Nervous? Impatient, patient? 

    I feel a bubbling excitement inside but I am pretty cool and collected on the outside. I just bought a new blouse that I plan to wear on Christmas.. And I have a back-up blouse I just bought a few weeks ago to wear Christmas Eve in case he surprises me and proposes then, instead. I should also plan some extra outfits for the other few days for the weekend.. Yipes!

     
    2.
    Member
    276 posts
    Helper bee
    cyclingchick    October 11, 2014   Texas

    I am nervous and excited! The ring is sitting out and taunting me. I haven't peeked because the box is wrapped lol. I know it's happening on Saturday night, but I don't know any other details. I am about to pass out from excitement!

    Good call on the back-up blouse and extra outfits. You never know what will happen. :)

     
    3.
    Member Icon
    Member
    9 posts
    Newbee
    VirtuousJewel    December 25, 2013  

    Hello all, I'm new to the board but I'm expecting a Christmas proposal. I'm overly anxious and it's only because I know it's coming but the fact that I have no idea how he'll pop the question or what the ring looks like adds more adrenaline to my anxiousness. I don't like surprises or secrets so its literally boggling my mind how well he's been hiding all information regarding the joyous occasion. According to my calculations I have 5 days: 3 hours and about 35 mins give or take before he proposes...told you I was antsy lol.

     
    4.
    Member
    276 posts
    Helper bee
    cyclingchick    October 11, 2014   Texas

    @VirtuousJewel:  Welcome to the board and congrats on the upcoming proposal!

     
    5.
    Member Icon
    Member
    9 posts
    Newbee
    VirtuousJewel    December 25, 2013  

    @cyclingchick:  Thank you so much and congratulations to you as well. I haven't even thought about my outfit(s). I'm still trying to pick nail polish, *sigh* I am a nervous wreck, I need to start a checklist.

     
    6.
    Member
    372 posts
    Helper bee
    Leelee26    July 27, 2013   Cincinnati

    Nervous Frown

    I'm afraid something isn't going to go right and it'll get pushed back again. Alas, my nails will be painted.

     
    7.
    Member Icon
    Member
    163 posts
    Blushing bee
    ciel    September 14, 2013  

    @Leelee26:  all nervous, or some excited, too?

     
    8.
    Member
    372 posts
    Helper bee
    Leelee26    July 27, 2013   Cincinnati

    @ciel:  80% nervous 20% excited - maybe more a  'anxiously nervous?', that's just my personality though. I don't want to get my hopes up and be disappointed, so it's easier for me to cope while being pessimistic vs. optimistic. When it happens, I will be completely THRILLED but until then I have to just chill. We're leaving for a wedding in Chicago tomorrow and I'm desperately trying to drown any "well maybe...."

    I did get excited to an extent last night when we were cuddling on the couch and his mom called and certainly asked a secretive question because his response was a casual, "I'll have to get back to you on that." and I did hear her response which was, "Ohhhhhhhh." Argh. I'm a ball of mixed emotions.

     
    9.
    Member Icon
    Member
    215 posts
    Helper bee
    tisposeroperche    May 8, 2014  

    Just counting down and still clueless if he's going to propose or not. I was even thinking he bought me some other present and NO ring at all:(

     
    10.
    Member
    1,863 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Omgbunnies    June 13, 2015   New England

    @VirtuousJewel:  welcome to the board!

     
    11.
    Member
    538 posts
    Busy bee
    cali_cat    June 21, 2013  

    Urgh. I thought maybe it was happening this weekend because he didn't ask me what I wanted for Christmas AND he said he wanted to plan a romantic dinner for sat night. But last night was was bragging about what good gifts he bought me and said he hadn't gotten around to finding a dinner spot for Saturday. Doesn't sound like a ring is coming :/ I'm going to just hope for a NYE proposal so I don't get weepy this weekend or on Christmas. 

     
    12.
    Member Icon
    Member
    9 posts
    Newbee
    VirtuousJewel    December 25, 2013  

    @Omgbunnies:  Thank you so much. You all are so wonderfully welcoming, I love this board already. Hoping everyone gets their wants/wishes this Christmas holiday or New Years and most importantly a long lasting, happy and healthy marriage to follow. May we all remain forever in love with our S/O's and they in love with us.

     
    13.
    Member Icon
    Member
    39 posts
    Newbee
    candybee       

    Yay for fellow Christmas waiting bees! I am very much hoping for a proposal Christmas eve, but trying really hard not to let the thought drive me crazy. :) spreading proposal wishing dust to all of you! And also, Merry Christmas!! :)

     
    14.
    Member Icon
    Member
    806 posts
    Busy bee
    Tarheelgurl    April 4, 2015   Canada / Wedding in North Carolina

    I'm trying not to think about him proposing. The more I do, the more anxious I get, haha. Instead I'm focusing on making him happy for Christmas and his birthday that is two days later. I got him some awesome presents, and can't wait to see his reaction when he opens up his gifts.

     
    15.
    Member
    297 posts
    Helper bee
    Fleur.De.Lis    April 5, 2014   Bellevue, WA

    Im so anxious Im trying to convince myself he wont do it until NYE. We have substantial opportunities the 23rd, 24th, Christmas... And then another 4 day weekend over NYE. The only saving grace is that I know where the ring box is, I can see if its there each day before we head out on our adventures... Takes the surprise out of it a little but Im going CRAZY!!

     
    16.
    Member
    329 posts
    Helper bee
    NickiBee    June 22, 2013   Texas

    super anxious but excited for sure, more than likely itll happen between the 26th and the 31st. my last yr beaing the girlfriend, ready for the upgrade.

     
    17.
    Member
    291 posts
    Helper bee
    Brickette    November 8, 2014   Queensland, Australia

    I don't believe that my SO will propose to me on Christmas day because he "doesn't like to take the focus of other peoples day" (he said this to me some time ago) but I can't help that small part of me that wishes he would!! Undecided

     
    18.
    Member
    490 posts
    Helper bee
    ilaz    April 2014   Ontario, Canada

    Brickette Interesting! That totally sounds like something my SO would say too, he's very reserved that way.

    I know it's happening on or before Christmas! How do I know? Because we've decided to have a who-will-propose-first contest officially commencing the moment we get to his family's place this weekend! I actually hope I'm first to propose, I have a cute idea :)

     
    19.
    Member
    291 posts
    Helper bee
    Brickette    November 8, 2014   Queensland, Australia

    @ilaz:  that is so cute!! Whats the plan? My fingers are crossed for you to get in first!!!  Smile

    My SO is very traditional when it comes to marriage etc.. He wants to ask for my Dad's blessing and he has said that he would hate it if I proposed to him because it is the one BIG thing that he gets to do and he wants it to be perfect (he can be a bit of a romantic when he wants to be lol). If I were to propose, I would ask him on Christmas Eve (this Christmas Eve!) because that was the night we first said "I love you" to each other Wink

     
    20.
    Member Icon
    Member
    453 posts
    Helper bee
    Jw1724    May 17, 2014   NH

    I'm all sorts of confused haha.

     

    He has the ring, this I know.

    We are going away on Saturday to a pretty little ski town. I think it COULD happen then, because he wants to go to a ledge that you hike to. But we also always hike. Then we'll be tubing at a ski resort and resting at a hotel. Not sure on Sunday.

    I don't think itll happen ON christmas because I have to work that night. So I kind of hope it doesnt happen on Christmas...

     
    21.
    Member Icon
    Member
    52 posts
    Worker bee
    Tachetetreasures    July 18, 2014  

    Got acrylic nails done for the first time ever the other day. I said it was for the family pictures (that his family invited me to be in!)

    Bought a new sweater that I plan to be wearing.

    Freakout moments: A million down a million more to go

     
    22.
    Member
    1,336 posts
    Bumble bee
    TaurianDoll    August 24, 2013   Maryland

    Trying to keep my nails looking nice and still waiting...he keeps slipping up and asking me if I'm excited for Christmas Eve...and now asking me what I plan to do after Christmas... I know it's going to happen before the 28th... just unsure when!!!!

    And I snooped. I went to use his laptop and when I pulled up Facebook, he was still logged in. I saw he had a message that said "Congratulations!!" He said that he had the ring but hasn't proposed yet. He said it will happen soon. That didn't help really... just made me excited and even more impatient. lol Then I logged out and carried on... I'm bad. I know. Bad TaurianDoll, BAD!

     
    23.
    Member
    276 posts
    Helper bee
    cyclingchick    October 11, 2014   Texas

    SO proposed last night! LOL I have been a grinning fool! Good Luck to the rest of the Christmas ladies-in-waiting...will be stalking the board this week!

     
    24.
    Member Icon
    Member
    34 posts
    Newbee
    pearllily    December 12, 2014   UK

    I am going pretty crazy I have to confess!  he has said that he will propose by September 2013 and we have recently been looking at rings and he got my ring size a few weeks ago.  The suspense is killing me!  I just dont know when he will do it :)

     
    25.
    Member Icon
    Member
    85 posts
    Worker bee
    MissKPreK    April 5, 2014   Cincinnati

    I was holding up fine until now! My stomch is in knots!! Me and my SO work Xmas eve.I work until 2:00 and he works until 4:00. I'm going to kill time by getting my nails done since my SO told me 'you really need to go get your nails done tomorrow' lol clearly he doesn't sugarcoat anything.

     
    26.
    Member Icon
    Member
    97 posts
    Worker bee
    mrstau732    March 8, 2014  

    Was HOPING and DREAMING (literally) about a holiday season proposal and I got one! Realistically I was thinking I would get it this time next year but I got it Friday! Surprised it actually happened so soon!

    Best Wishes ladies!!!!!

    xoxoxoxox

     
    27.
    Member Icon
    Member
    97 posts
    Worker bee
    mrstau732    March 8, 2014  

    @cyclingchick:  Congratulations!!!!!

     
    28.
    Member Icon
    Member
    97 posts
    Worker bee
    mrstau732    March 8, 2014  

    @TaurianDoll:  Haha!Smile I tried to keep my nails nice & SO went & proposed the night BEFORE my manicure. Just my luck! Frown

     
    29.
    Member
    276 posts
    Helper bee
    cyclingchick    October 11, 2014   Texas

    @mrstau732:  Thank you! Congrats to you too! Smile

     
    30.
    Member Icon
    Member
    215 posts
    Helper bee
    tisposeroperche    May 8, 2014  

    Counting down the hours here: he put a little gold bag from a jewelry store under the tree and I have to wait, wait and wait. He said it is not a ring. Is he joking or not?

     
    31.
    Member Icon
    Member
    347 posts
    Helper bee
    sunshinebee    June 9, 2013  

    Aaaahhhhh! I know it will be soon and I thought maybe tonight because we have dinner reservations out.  But he just called to say his boss/friend invited us to dinner tonight and just wanted to double check that I wouldn't rather go there for dinner.  What?! SIGH... we have decided to still go out so we can have a nice dinner, just us.  But clearly he isn't planning a proposal tonight. :(. I am going crazy!! I know he has the ring, and I know it will be this year.  I mean wtf is he waiting for??? I know I need to just chill, but I am having a moment.  Going to do a workout dvd and get back to the holiday spirit now :).  Good luck everyone!

     
    32.
    Member
    2,676 posts
    Sugar bee
    Sapphire-Dreamer    September 21, 2014  

    Hey guys. I just came from the nail salon and the hair dressers. We are going to a party tonight and...I donnow.

    Is this what it is like now? To know it could be ANY DAY? Who knows...I donnow if he has the ring. I know that he ordered it. I just don't know if he has it in his possession.

    He ordered the ring and spoke to my dad a night or two ago. I would be surprised if it happened so quickly. It is all happening so fast. I am freaking out just a little bit. Like I need some water.

    Oh I wish I weren't so AWARE of evetrything. I need a dress for tonight.

    My nails look nice though...

     
    33.
    Member
    1,863 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Omgbunnies    June 13, 2015   New England

    @Sapphire-Dreamer:  gorgeous color!

    well no christmas proposal for me. SO told me that Jewels for me screwed up the ring and had to be scrapped and a new order started. He said it wouldn't get it here until friday or saturday, so it sounds like a NY Eve proposal instead! Oh well, I don't care when :) I know where his hearts at and that he plans on it very soon. 

     
    34.
    Member
    2,676 posts
    Sugar bee
    Sapphire-Dreamer    September 21, 2014  

    @Omgbunnies:  NYE sounds awesome

     
    35.
    Member
    58 posts
    Worker bee
    ThePrissyFiancee    May 18, 2014  

    Hello all, nice to meet everyone. Tomorrow is the big day "allegedly" I'm a nervous wreck. I wonder if I'll do something silly. Only a few more hours to go.

     
    36.
    Member
    1,863 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Omgbunnies    June 13, 2015   New England

    @ThePrissyFiancee:  welcome to the board!! Stay strong!!

     
    37.
    Member
    58 posts
    Worker bee
    ThePrissyFiancee    May 18, 2014  

    @Omgbunnies:  Thank you so much. I'm trying but I'm having butterflies and I can't make myself go to sleep.

    Something I've noticed since my S/O has made it obvious to friends and family that I'm going to be around for the duration is that one of his friends has become more of a pest. Like on specific date nights, he calls and my S/O doesn't answer so on the most recent date night he just so happens to pop up at my S/O's house...Anybody else experienced this during the wait? Is this to be expected more frequenty?

     
    38.
    Member
    1,863 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Omgbunnies    June 13, 2015   New England

    @ThePrissyFiancee:  thats strange... Have you spoken to SO about this behavior?

     
    39.
    Member
    58 posts
    Worker bee
    ThePrissyFiancee    May 18, 2014  

    Yeah, we're all supposed to have a meeting next Sunday about it (me, FI and the friend).

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.

    No tags yet.





    Copyright 2004-2013, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee


    More
    User Posts Today
    AlwaysSunny 57
    Birdi 34
    sharontobemarried 24
    FutureMrsHall15 24
    mrsSonthebeach 23
    wrkbrk 22
    leecy87 21
    pengoala 20
    Chelwilly 19
    lealorali 14
    User Posts Today
    MissPaigey 9
    MaidMarian 6
    AlwaysSunny 3
    Birdi 3
    letigre 3
    Jacqui90 2
    kansas_nurse 2
    tisposeroperche 2
    sillybilly88 2
    Chelwilly 2

    Favors by Weddingbee

    Shop Now ยป


    Waiting

    More