Ladies, Let's Agree to Disagree

posted 3 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 4
Member
45 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@CelticBeachBride:  +1

I agree.

I’d also add, that once a question or constructive comment has been entered, not to gang up on that bee with more interrogations or negative opinions. I try to follow “think and say” or “think and not say” in those situations. I have seen people nearly bullied on here.

Try to imagine whether or not you’d be contrary or even confrontational to the person’s face. I doubt most of us would do that.

That being said, there are some very helpful and kind spirited people here. I am thankful to have a source of inspiration and camaraderie here on WeddingBee!

Post # 5
Member
670 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Love this!

Post # 6
Member
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@CelticBeachBride:  I do agree with you – I think any reasonable person would. Just because something is your opinion doesn’t make it right and mean anyone who disagrees with you is stupid. However, this is the internet and a public forum filled with strangers. A lot of common decency doesn’t seem to apply. Sometimes I think folks take it a bit too seriously though. I have learned to just ignore legitimate personal attacks because chances are the jerk typing it is not worth my time. There is no need to always be so defensive. A stranger is freaking out at you online? Who cares. In the grand scheme of things, it’s irrelevant.

Post # 7
Member
756 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@CelticBeachBride:  amen honey! i have had so many of my posts hijacked lately its drving me nuts. ive had bees come down to all out bullying on me and swearing at me sending me private messages just to yell and swear at me and starting fights on my threads. its insane! im sorry but if you dont like something, please keep it to yourself!

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