Ladies: What are your techniques to turn DH/FI/SO on?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

I wear a dress. I don’t know why, but it works at least 90% of the time. 

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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

Go down…

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Pretty much all I have to do is take my clothes off and that gets the job done…haha.

I usually put on cute underwear and prance around the house and then go interrupt whatever he is doing on the computer with a little dance. Then off to the bedroom we go! 😉

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Breathe? Seems like  that works around here lol!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

he initiates probably 3/4 of the time… but if I want it while he’s playing a video game or watching TV,  kissing him and letting my hands wander will usually be enough to get him aroused. though if he’s really in the middle of something that has his full attention, I have to be a little more assertive…. remove his pants, use mouth. 100% no fail rate.

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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@candy11:  I think she means just the fact that she’s a girl with a pulse, lol! That’s kinda it here, too. I can do extra stuff but really all I need to do is suggest it or take off some clothes and we’re off!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@candy11:  I meant just being alive seems to turn him on!

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

@candy11:  Hey, maybe that will work even better! More incentive to take you to the bedroom! Haha. You can always just dance around half naked in your room? Or send a naughty picture of yourself from the other room perhaps?

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

In a roommate situation like I have (sister is living with us until she gets on her feet), you have to be more coy about things. I may send him sexy text messages or a slightly sexy picture (a thigh, some cleavage, etc. Never full nudes because NOPE). Or I just tell him to meet me in our room for some reason and close the door behind us. I might wear lingerie, cute underwear, do my hair and make up how he likes (or not do anything) and just start kissing him. He initiates 80% of the time, so in those times I initiate he usually responds very well. And when he tells me no because he is busy or stressed about something, I seduce him anyway (unless he actually IS busy or totally not in the mood). He always feels 100x better when I’m done taking care of him and his stress disappears 🙂

You can try giving him a massage and turn that into foreplay. Do a sexy dance for him. Spray some sexy perfume and just get really close to him. When we are getting ready to go to bed I have him spoon me all innocent like and start rubbing my bum on him lol. He’s an ass man so that usually works lol.

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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I just show him my boobs, hah.

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