(Closed) Last first date ever… what a cool thought!

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

AWWW my first last date was to taco bell LOL…. we weren’t really dating but it was the first time we met! <3

But the worst date I have ever been on was to a cafe. The cafe was great but the guy was SUCH a douche. He just kept insulting me the entire time. He kept saying how my shoes were ugly. My jeans were ugly. My jacket was cheap. My nails looked ugly.

He had the nerve to try and ask me out again after that!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I remember thinking that when my hubby and I started getting serious. Sadly, that is one of the reasons I hoped that we worked out!

My worst was a guy I met online through JDate (Jewish online dating site). First, I said I didn’t want to go any place fancy, just coffee b/c I don’t like people I haven’t even met paying for an expensive meal for me, and I said not on Valentine’s day b/c that’s just weird. He made the date for Valentine’s day at Magiano’s, way to listen! He was like 5 inches shorter then he said he was. Then he pretty much said everything wrong. He doesn’t like gay people (my two best friends are gay), he told me I’m not really Jewish b/c I’m reform, he doesn’t like black people, he doesn’t like adoption, etc. And then he wondered why I didn’t want a second date.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

ughh…one first date was with this guy that my friend fixed me up with for Homecoming. I could of killed her. He had the craziest hair (think Nepolian Dynomite), and kept trying to kiss me, and i had to dodge him. It was aweful.

My last first date just the two of us was prob. just hanging out at his house.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Right before we fly to NY to get married we’re actually having dinner at the restaurant where we had our first date…so it’ll be like our “last first date” in a way lol.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’ve had this exact same thought many times.  Thank God I’m married! lol  My worst first date was with this guy who sneezed a giant green booger onto the table during the meal (it was a nice restaurant too) and proceeded to play with it the entire time. Oh.My.God.  I couldn’t keep my eyes off it (it was like trying not to stare at someone’s mole) and I also couldn’t eat or get out of there fast enough. True story. I think I win so far. lol

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@sit1010: that is so cute!!! i love that idea.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@PutABirdOnIt: ewww!!! i have no idea what i would have done if i were you.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

Uhhh, I’m being a dumbo here, but I’m assuming you mean the last first date ever, is/was the first date we had w/ our current SO’s, correct? If so, then we went to dinner and a movie, (sooo cliche, but fun nonetheless), although technically we had met through mutual friends at a bar two nights prior, and had a good time hanging out then. 

However, the last date before meeting SO was also a blind date, and the worst date ever. He was nothing like the picture a friend showed me, at all. We also went to the movies, but instead of picking me up at my friend’s house like I suggested, he said it would be better if we just met at the theater. Granted, he did drive a crotch rocket, so I can see the logic there, but he also had a car that he could’ve driven if he’d wanted to. Then, the loser proceeded to continue making comments about my cleavage, and retrieving popcorn that might fall there. He didn’t smoke, I’m a smoker. There definitely wasn’t a second date. 

 

@artbee: Hence your avatar? I always wondered about that. My BFF’s gay, too. He’s gonna be my man of honor, when the big day comes. 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh man, the guy’s dad had just died in a horrible car accident like 3 weeks before our date, and his mom had already started dating her boss who was sleeping over with her at the house. It was very, very sad and I felt awful for him, but it was some heavy stuff to discuss over our first date. I really didn’t know what to say or offer, so I just kind of sat there eating my quesadilla while he talked about it all.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Wonderwoman217: YES!  And let me be clear, I was not talking about my husband. lol

@mattsgirl813: There’s really nothing you can do.  You can’t SAY anything and he drove me there so walking out wasn’t really an option.  It was disgusting beyond description. And it wasn’t just some little thing either.  It was a good-size glob. EWWWW! lol

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@sit1010: that’s a super cool idea!! We’re getting married about an hour-ish away from where we had our first date; now I want to do this!

@PutABirdOnIt: eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. you totally win!

My worst first date: a guy friend of mine kept setting me up on blind dates, and would (I think purposely!) set me up w/ guys that weren’t my type. I was going through a phase where I didn’t want to date white guys (and I’m white) and I can’t stand when a guy’s shorter than me. I was also in a preppy boy stage, though I’ve never really been one for any kind of grunge. So my ‘friend’ sets me up with a white skateboarder five inches shorter than me!!

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