Post # 1
New to this and very last minute! I am getting married tomorrow and would appreciate advice … we are having a registry office wedding and have written the readings (one each) ourselves. However, my fiance has just told me he hasn’t written his. I am stunned and feeling sick. I can’t begin to imagine how he thinks this is ok. He is lovely, usually, though often a bit thoughtless – but this takes the biscuit! What should I do?
Post # 2
Ask if he would like your help and if so, offer some templates to get his creative writing juices flowing. If he says no, hope for the best!
Post # 3
Just because your FI is having trouble putting his deepest feelings into eloquent words, does not mean he loves or cares for you any less. I would do nothing, just reassure him that as long as his words are from the heart, that’s all you care about. Also keep in mind that while it may not be your style, some people work best with a deadline that is right upon them.