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Last minute RSVP declines

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
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    Busy bee
    studentbride    December 12, 2009   Texas

    Did anyone else get this?

    People letting you know at the last minute that they did rsvp but can no longer make it now? drives me CRAZY

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    That's horrible.  Are there any local B list people that you can ask to come and fill some seats so you get some use out of the food?

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    hey, at least they're letting you know at all.

     
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    Busy bee
    studentbride    December 12, 2009   Texas

    Yeah i guess ill start letting some people know, its just a huge pain

     
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    Br1tSh1n1ngStar    10/17/09   New Jersey

    Yes, we thankfully were able to find replacements. Do you have any single people that would like to bring a date or a friend so you can fill seats and not lose money?

     
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    Noelle-a-Belle    October 16 2009   Southern CA

    I think it's normal....and don't be surprised if people who RSVPd yes don't show up.  It happened at both me and my sister's weddings.  Very rude.

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    We had these. Sadly, it was wedding party people and siblings, so it was extra stressful on us. Luckily, they told us before our catering deadline. Phew!

    But I think it happens to everyone. Just gotta roll with the punches, right?

     

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