(Closed) Last minute RSVP declines

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

That’s horrible.  Are there any local B list people that you can ask to come and fill some seats so you get some use out of the food?

Post # 4
Member
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

hey, at least they’re letting you know at all.

Post # 6
Member
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yes, we thankfully were able to find replacements. Do you have any single people that would like to bring a date or a friend so you can fill seats and not lose money?

Post # 7
Member
404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I think it’s normal….and don’t be surprised if people who RSVPd yes don’t show up.  It happened at both me and my sister’s weddings.  Very rude.

Post # 8
Member
2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

We had these. Sadly, it was wedding party people and siblings, so it was extra stressful on us. Luckily, they told us before our catering deadline. Phew!

But I think it happens to everyone. Just gotta roll with the punches, right?

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