Post # 1
So I have refrained from showing my bridezilla side this whole wedding planning. And I feel for the most part I have been more than patient with my vendors. WHY DON’T THEY HAVE ANY SENSE OF URGENCY IN THIS *&&^%% INDUSTRY! YES, I am having a moment !
I will make it short, 2 vendors have yet to give me final proposals and it is now nine days till the wedding. I have asked nicely, called and given them plenty of time to prepare these. I am the type of person that needs something concrete to know it is really going to happen. All I am getting is “don’t worry, everything will fall into place” I DON’T WANT TO HEAR THOSE WORDS AGAIN! BY the way these vendors are the cake and the venue that has all my rentals. These are not just small details and I know that it will probably all work out. But for now, I just need to air it in the WeddingBee land so that I can get it off my chest.
I think wine is in my future this evening!
p.s. I am also Pmsing which totally helps the situation!
Post # 3
wine helps! I had the venue change our final meeting yesterday, the one where we do everything from pay them the final balance to plan out the seating (like you mention above, it’s the venue, not exactly a small detail). After months and months of planning it’s hard to deal with people who are very lax about the whole thing, I totally understand what you’re going through. Definitely get that bottle of wine 🙂
Post # 4
That is frustrating. Our DJ gave us the music layout for the ceremony the night before rehearsal and it was wrong. She never even sent us the reception one even though we asked for it. I would have liked to have seen what she had because it was wrong as well. “It’ll all work out, everything is fine my ass.”
Drink some wine for me, too 😉
Post # 5
I would start making some demands and finding back up people…. 9 days is close and if these people dont buck up and do what you need they are only going to cause you stress on the day of your wedding… Have a gladd for me Im headed to work 🙁
Post # 6
See, I knew if I posted here it would make me feel better. hmm…what wine shall I have tonight? Don’t worry, I will drink plenty for all!
I think what drives me crazy the most is that I have been planning over a year and did it this way so I would NOT be stressed at the last minute. But depending on other people just makes you crazy! I mean if I told my customers that everything will work out just fine…………….not sure that would fly.
Boston, we have the same wedding date. Good luck!!