(Closed) Late with RSVP (hangs head in shame…)

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Father's Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center

It should be fine! I know I waited until the Wednesday after our due date (it was a Saturday) to start contacting people. You would be surprised at the number of RSVPs we got on that Monday and Tuesday from people being late!! 🙂

Post # 4
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11287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

i’m sure it will be fine.  if they don’t get it soon enough i am sure that they will contact you as most brides do.

Post # 5
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3669 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@smiles4jo:  It can’t hurt to email just to put their minds at ease. My SO and I did the same thing recently… just lost track of the days. He was a groomsman, though, so they obviously knew we were coming, but we emailed them to apologize, let them know our meal choices, and say the RSVP was on the way.

Post # 6
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9057 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I wouldn’t worry that much about it. We got plenty of rsvps that were likely put in the mail on the due date rather than actually sent to arrive by the due date. I padded a couple days before I actually needed to know to allow for late rsvps. 

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