Lazy brides like me – Unexpected Post-Wedding Blues?!

posted 2 years ago in Married Life
Post # 2
687 posts
Busy bee

Yes! I just got married the other day and I was wondering the same thing because I basically put zero planning into this beyond picking out an outfit. After the ceremony we went to a bar for a few hours, then went home. I had a great time, am happy with the i-phone pictures that people took (lol) and have absolutely no regrets about how easy and low-maintenance it was, so I don’t know why I feel like a kid the day after Christmas. I’ve been with my husband for several years, so it’s not like I was expecting anything to be different as a married couple. I keep thinking thank god I didn’t pour all my money and energy into a real wedding because the letdown would be huge!

Post # 4
187 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Villa Celeste

I think whether or not you put a WHOLE lot of planning into it, it’s still the anticipation of finally getting married. A wedding is the beginning of a new chapter for you, and there’s a lot of excitement surrounding it. 

I haven’t been married yet, but I can understand why you have a bit of blues. My advice would be to just let things go back to normal. You’re now married, and have a new exciting chapter to embark on!

Hope you feel betrer. 🙂

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