Ldr bf holiday alone, help!

posted 3 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
845 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@Ldr4644:  He is stringing you along from the sounds of it. If he actually wanted to spend time with you then he would make the effort. What is his job? I’m just wondering how he’s able to travel the world and take months off at a time.

Post # 4
3238 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It doesn’t sound like he is taking your relationship seriously. When I was in a LDR alost all time off where travel was possible was spent together. His flakiness would concern me. How is he otherwise? Do you talk daily?

Post # 5
339 posts
Helper bee

My perspective may be a little different from the previous comments. I have been in a ldr for a little over two years. we meet while i was on vacation(he’s my cousin’s friend), hit it off, and have been together ever since. Our first year of being together was rocky to say the least. We were both semi-involved with other people and letting those relationships go without a real reason took some time, so you can say were were friends for the first couple months of our relationship. Anyways, I live in the US and he lives in Anguilla. I was in school, he was working so scheduling time to see eachother was a bit hectic. Infact, we didnt see eachother again for almost a year after we met and resolved to the telephone and skype dates. Now comes the next time we saw eachother, we decided that we would be very serious about each other. We saw each other about 4 times last year for about 4/5 weeks each time. He’s a chef, so his schedule is really flexible. We are actually going on our first vacation together in April.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that it takes time. especially in a long distance relationship. It actually takes more time. Im sure if you werent long distance, you wouldnt really have an issue with him visiting family and friends. If you feel disappointed, then talk to him. Let him know you see yourself with him and QT is important to you! Im sure he will understand. And if he doesnt then maybe you should reevaluate. but for rightnow, TALK!

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