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We were long distance and used Stand By Me just cause we liked it. But I've always loved Steady As We Go by DMB for LDRs:
I'll walk halfway around the world
Just to sit down by your side
And I would do most anything, girl
To be the apple of your eye
Well troubles, they may come and go
But good times, they're the gold
And if the road gets rocky, girl
Just steady as we go
Any place you wanna go
Know I'll be next to you
If it's treasure, baby, you're looking for
I'll search the whole world through
I know troubles, they may come and go
But good times, they're the gold
So if the road gets rocky, girl
Just steady as we go
When the storm comes down you shelter me
When I don't say a word and you know exactly what i mean
In the darkest times, oh, you shine on me
You set me free and keep me steady as we go
So if your heart wrings dry, my love
I will fill your cup
And if your load gets heavy, girl
I will lift you up
Well troubles, they may come and go
But good times be the gold
So if the road gets rocky, girl
Just steady as we go
I feel like "Such Great Heights" by Postal Service is a popular LDR first dance song. The cover by Iron and Wine is much slower and not synthesized.
"Lucky" by Jason Mraz and Colbie Calliat is popular and that's clearly about a LDR. It's also a really pretty and sweet song.
This is one of our songs. I didn't use it at the wedding because every time I hear one of our songs I burst out in tears. It is 'Carrying Your Love with Me' by George Strait.
Ours will be Love Song (the 311 cover).
However far away, I will always love you...

We won't be having an official first dance, but if we were going to, I'd want to use Patsy Cline's "You Belong to Me." Definitely an LDR song.
Also, when I was living in South Africa last summer, I used to have to change the channel whenever "Lucky" came on to the MTV station at the gym, because I got too emotional - and it's not even that I like the song that much!
We haven't decided on our song yet - but I'm thinking Such Great Heights! I love this song.
Ours is At Last. Very sweet, definitely a LDR song. I can't wait!
At Last
My love has come along
My lonely days are over
And life is like a song
O yea yea
At last...
Listen to it on myspace or itunes. So romantic and sweet. Good luck! O and I LOVE the DMB song, JeniRae. Beautiful and a really good one!
We weren't LDR but the song we used as our first dance would be appropriate:
Do you hear me,
I'm talking to you
Across the water across the deep blue ocean
Under the open sky, oh my, baby I'm trying
Boy I hear you in my dreams
I feel your whisper across the sea
I keep you with me in my heart
You make it easier when life gets hard
I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Ooohh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh
They don't know how long it takes
Waiting for a love like this
Every time we say goodbye
I wish we had one more kiss
I'll wait for you I promise you, I will
I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Lucky we're in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday
And so I'm sailing through the sea
To an island where we'll meet
You'll hear the music fill the air
I'll put a flower in your hair
Though the breezes through trees
Move so pretty you're all I see
As the world keeps spinning round
You hold me right here right now
I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
I'm lucky we're in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday
Does anyone know the band Thrice? They have such a beautiful song called Atlantic. Here are the lyrics:
it's been so long, and tin cans and string for years
is all that we've known, could it be you're really here
'cause my eyes are open, and everything still moves in slow-motion,
breathless and blue, and behind your eyes the sea
oceans of light envelop me
but things can't be as they seem, I'm so far from home
this must be another dream, but my eyes are open
and everything still moves in slow-motion,
breathless and blue, and behind your eyes the sea
oceans of light envelop me
my eyes are open, and everything still moves in slow-motion,
breathless and blue, and behind your eyes the sea
oceans of light envelop me
Hope that helps!
We love Rascall Flatts- God Bless the Broken Road (that lead me straight to you...)... That is, if you like country music :)
Our song is "Alabama" by Cross Canadian Ragweed, but i'm a bigger fan of "Feet don't touch the ground" by Brandon Jenkins, for a wedding, so that will more than likely be it. He only likes a few country songs (these being two of them) and if we danced to that I'd like to two-step. Ha. So that will be a little hard to convince him to do.
@MissAsB - I"ll be dancing with my dad to "I Cross My Heart". He's a HUGEEEE George Strait fan. I'm with you though, it makes me want to cry.
I have to agree with the bees who mentioned "Lucky" with Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat. That song is perfect for LDR couples and might be our first dance pick.
Our song is "Then" by Brad Paisley!! It really describes our relationship :)
Our song is "Then" by Brad Paisley!! It really describes our relationship :)
Great thread. Our first dance most likely won't center around the LDR nature of our relationship history, though we will be honoring that element of our love through our ring vow: from the book of Ruth, "Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay."
This thread is so helpful! After 4 years of doing the LDR, we've tentatively chosen At Last.
I have to admit, though, that the lyrics to Shania's "You're Still the One" probably fits us better.
Looks like we made it
Look how far we've come my baby
We mighta took the long way
We knew we'd get there someday
They said, "I bet they'll never make it"
But just look at us holding on
We're still together still going strong
Chorus:
(You're still the one)
You're still the one I run to
The one that I belong to
You're the one I want for life
(You're still the one)
You're still the one that I love
The only one I dream of
You're still the one I kiss good night
Ain't nothin' better
We beat the odds together
I'm glad we didn't listen
Look at what we would be missin'
Okay - here's a couple of more offbeat songs, we're long distance across a continent and both have been VERY appropriate.
"Smile" - Chris Rice
How far are you, how close am I?
I know your words are true and I don't feel them inside.
Still I believe you'll never leave,
So where are you now?
You're all I have, You're all I know.
Your breath is breathing in my soul.
Still I am gasping, aching, asking
Where are you now?
Cause I just wanna be with You,
I just want this waiting to be over.
I just want to be with You,
And it helps to know the Day is getting closer.
Every minute takes an hour,
Every inch feels like a mile,
Til I won't have to imagine,
And I finally get to see You smile.
My journey's here, but my heart is there.
So I dream and wait, and keep the faith, while you prepare,
Our destiny, til You come back for me
Oh, please make it soon...
"Oh, It Is Love" - Hellogoodbye
Oh dear
It's been hardly a moment
And you are already missed
There is still a bit of your skin
That I've yet to have kissed
Oh say please do not go
But you know, oh, you know that I must
Oh say I love you so
But you know, oh, you know you can trust
We'll be holding hands once again
All our broken plans I will mend
I will hold you tight so you know
It is love from the first
Time I pressed my hand into yours
Thinking oh is it love?
Oh, dear, it's been hardly three days
And I'm longing to feel your embrace.
There are several days
Until I can see your sweet face.
Oh say, wouldn't you like to be older and married with me
Oh say, wouldn't it be nice to know right now that we'll be
Someday holding hands in the end
All our broken plans will have been
I will kiss you soft so you know
It is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking oh is it love?
This one is a blast from the past, but it was a LDR love song for a past boyfriend and me: "Right Here Waiting" by Richard Marx. Don't care too much for the ex, but the song is still beautiful and I'll still belt it out if I hear it on the radio, LOL!
Oceans apart, day after day,
And I slowly go insane.
I hear your voice on the line,
But it doesn't stop the pain.
If I see you next to never,
How can we say forever?
Wherever you go,
Whatever you do,
I will be right here waiting for you.
Whatever it takes,
Or how my heart breaks,
I will be right here waiting for you.
I took for granted, all the times
That I though would last somehow.
I hear the laughter, I taste the tears,
But I can't get near you now.
Oh, can't you see it baby?
You've got me goin' crazy...
Wherever you go,
Whatever you do,
I will be right here waiting for you.
Whatever it takes,
Or how my heart breaks,
I will be right here waiting for you.
I wonder how we can survive
This romance.
But in the end, if I'm with you,
I'll take the chance...
Oh, can't you see it baby?
You've got me goin' crazy...
Wherever you go,
Whatever you do,
I will be right here waiting for you.
Whatever it takes,
Or how my heart breaks,
I will be right here waiting for you.
hi everyone :)
has anyone ever head the song 10 hours by warren barfield? me and my boyfriend were in a LDR for 1.5 years (and will be again for 3 months this summer...hrmph.) and absolutely fell in love with this song. it's been his ringtone for 2 years now and i doubt i'll ever be able to change it - such a comfort when i hear it!:)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMGdeWkyZTU&feature=related
There's ten hours between us tonight
And I feel like my heart will break
Cause it's been way too long
Since I've last seen your face
What I'd give if you were here with me now
And I was lost in your touch
If I know my heart
There's nothing I've ever wanted so much
But to love you
Just to love you
It's all I wanna do
There's ten hours between us tonight
And I feel like I could die
But all the pain would just
Go away if I could look in your eyes
And love you
Just love you
It's all I wanna do
Cause I know you're the one
That I've been praying for
I could love you for a thousand years
And wish for a thousand more
There's ten hours between us tonight
But tonight can only last so long
By twelve o'clock tomorrow baby
You'll be here in my arms
And I'll hold you close to my heart
And I pray you feel my love
Until that day when time or space
Will never again separate us
And I'll love you
Oh, I'll love you
It's all I'll ever do
Cause I know you're the one
It just feels so right
Would it be ok with you
If I loved you for the rest of my life
another good one by warren barfield is 'love is not a fight.' :)
the major reason we love our first dance song so much is because it was very significant to us when we were long-distance. it's 'patience' by guns n roses. i highlighted the parts that mean the most to us.
PATIENCE
Shed a tear 'cause I'm missing you
I'm still alright to smile
Girl, I think about you every day now
Was a time when I wasn't sure
But you set my mind at ease
There is no doubt you're in my heart now
Said woman take it slow
It'll work itself out fine
All we need is just a little patience
Said sugar make it slow
And we'll come together fine
All we need is just a little patience
(inhale) Patience...
Ooh, oh, yeah
Sit here on the stairs
'Cause I'd rather be alone
If I can't have you right now, I'll wait dear
Sometimes, I get so tense
But I can't speed up the time
But you know, love, there's one more thing to consider
Said woman take it slow
Things will be just fine
You and I'll just use a little patience
Said sugar take the time
'Cause the lights are shining bright
You and I've got what it takes to make it
We won't fake it, Oh never break it
'Cause I can't take it
I want to dance to it now, now, now!
I think our first dance will be Miranda Lambert's Making Plans. The song just seemed to fit us, especially since we're LDR and ALWAYS making plans for the next visit/phone call/holiday etc :)
I *love* Such Great Heights, especially the Iron and Wine version. It really is the perfect LDR song. It was very significant for my boy and I when we did 6 months of long distance at the beginning of our relationship, and I'm sure it will help get me through the year of LDR that we have coming our way soon.
I always thought of it as more of a "walking down the aisle" song than a first dance song, but I think it would work either way.
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Hey LDRs what is everyone thinking for their first dance as a married couple song together? Is anyone going with anything that summarizes the distance and their shared love ? I need some ideas I'm having trouble deciding on a song and same with my fiance.