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    Katrina2619    December 23, 2011   New Jersey

    Hey LDRs what is everyone thinking for their first dance as a married couple song together? Is anyone going with anything that summarizes the distance and their shared love ? I need some ideas I'm having trouble deciding on a song and same with my fiance. 

     

     
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    JeniRae    May 2, 2009   Pittsburgh

    We were long distance and used Stand By Me just cause we liked it. But I've always loved Steady As We Go by DMB for LDRs:

     

    I'll walk halfway around the world

    Just to sit down by your side

    And I would do most anything, girl

    To be the apple of your eye

    Well troubles, they may come and go

    But good times, they're the gold

    And if the road gets rocky, girl

    Just steady as we go

     

    Any place you wanna go

    Know I'll be next to you

    If it's treasure, baby, you're looking for

    I'll search the whole world through

    I know troubles, they may come and go

    But good times, they're the gold

    So if the road gets rocky, girl

    Just steady as we go

     

    When the storm comes down you shelter me

    When I don't say a word and you know exactly what i mean

    In the darkest times, oh, you shine on me

    You set me free and keep me steady as we go

     

    So if your heart wrings dry, my love

    I will fill your cup

    And if your load gets heavy, girl

    I will lift you up

    Well troubles, they may come and go

    But good times be the gold

    So if the road gets rocky, girl

    Just steady as we go

     
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    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    Ours was Beyond the Sea by Bobby Darin.  It fit us perfectly!

     
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    LadyGoodman    September 25, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    I feel like "Such Great Heights" by Postal Service is a popular LDR first dance song.  The cover by Iron and Wine is much slower and not synthesized.

    "Lucky" by Jason Mraz and Colbie Calliat is popular and that's clearly about a LDR.  It's also a really pretty and sweet song.

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    this is a really good thread! Keep the ideas comin' ladies!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    This is one of our songs.  I didn't use it at the wedding because every time I hear one of our songs I burst out in tears.  It is 'Carrying Your Love with Me' by George Strait.

     
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    phedre    August 9, 2010   New Orleans, LA

    Ours will be Love Song (the 311 cover).

    However far away, I will always love you...

    Smile

     
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    historienne       SF/Mendocino

    We won't be having an official first dance, but if we were going to, I'd want to use Patsy Cline's "You Belong to Me."  Definitely an LDR song.

    Also, when I was living in South Africa last summer, I used to have to change the channel whenever "Lucky" came on to the MTV station at the gym, because I got too emotional - and it's not even that I like the song that much!

     
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    jamie80218    7/10/10   Denver, CO

    We haven't decided on our song yet - but I'm thinking Such Great Heights! I love this song.

     
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    mrsmurraytobe    June 11, 2011   Atlanta

    Ours is At Last. Very sweet, definitely a LDR song. I can't wait!

    At Last

    My love has come along

    My lonely days are over

    And life is like a song

    O yea yea

    At last...

    Listen to it on myspace or itunes. So romantic and sweet. Good luck! O and I LOVE the DMB song, JeniRae. Beautiful and a really good one!

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    We weren't LDR but the song we used as our first dance would be appropriate:

    Do you hear me,
    I'm talking to you
    Across the water across the deep blue ocean
    Under the open sky, oh my, baby I'm trying
    Boy I hear you in my dreams
    I feel your whisper across the sea
    I keep you with me in my heart
    You make it easier when life gets hard

    I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
    Lucky to have been where I have been
    Lucky to be coming home again
    Ooohh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh

    They don't know how long it takes
    Waiting for a love like this
    Every time we say goodbye
    I wish we had one more kiss
    I'll wait for you I promise you, I will

    I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
    Lucky to have been where I have been
    Lucky to be coming home again
    Lucky we're in love every way
    Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
    Lucky to be coming home someday

    And so I'm sailing through the sea
    To an island where we'll meet
    You'll hear the music fill the air
    I'll put a flower in your hair
    Though the breezes through trees
    Move so pretty you're all I see
    As the world keeps spinning round
    You hold me right here right now

    I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend
    Lucky to have been where I have been
    Lucky to be coming home again
    I'm lucky we're in love every way
    Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
    Lucky to be coming home someday

     
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    SaraRocks    October 16, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    Does anyone know the band Thrice? They have such a beautiful song called Atlantic. Here are the lyrics:

    it's been so long, and tin cans and string for years
    is all that we've known, could it be you're really here

    'cause my eyes are open, and everything still moves in slow-motion,
    breathless and blue, and behind your eyes the sea
    oceans of light envelop me

    but things can't be as they seem, I'm so far from home
    this must be another dream, but my eyes are open

    and everything still moves in slow-motion,
    breathless and blue, and behind your eyes the sea
    oceans of light envelop me

    my eyes are open, and everything still moves in slow-motion,
    breathless and blue, and behind your eyes the sea
    oceans of light envelop me

    Hope that helps!

     

     
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    RxBrideToBe    August 21, 2010  

    Fly Me to the Moon by Sinatra :)

     
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    littlecat    October 1, 2011  

    We love Rascall Flatts- God Bless the Broken Road (that lead me straight to you...)...  That is, if you like country music :)

     
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    msqthoney    April 10, 2010   Los Angeles, California

    When I Need You by Celine Dion :)

     
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    kourtdp    April 7, 2012   Broken Arrow

    Our song is "Alabama" by Cross Canadian Ragweed, but i'm a bigger fan of "Feet don't touch the ground" by Brandon Jenkins, for a wedding, so that will more than likely be it. He only likes a few country songs (these being two of them) and if we danced to that I'd like to two-step. Ha. So that will be a little hard to convince him to do.

    @MissAsB - I"ll  be dancing with my dad to "I Cross My Heart".  He's a HUGEEEE George Strait fan. I'm with you though, it makes me want to cry.

     
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    riley jane    May 2011   Virginia

    I have to agree with the bees who mentioned "Lucky" with Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat. That song is perfect for LDR couples and might be our first dance pick.

     
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    futuredrbraun    May 15, 2010  

    Our song is "Then" by Brad Paisley!! It really describes our relationship :)

     
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    futuredrbraun    May 15, 2010  

    Our song is "Then" by Brad Paisley!! It really describes our relationship :)

     
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    LittlestBirds    July 24, 2010   Seattle, WA

    Great thread. Our first dance most likely won't center around the LDR nature of our relationship history, though we will be honoring that element of our love through our ring vow: from the book of Ruth, "Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay."

     
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    classysolo2010    August 14, 2010  

    This thread is so helpful!  After 4 years of doing the LDR, we've tentatively chosen At Last.

    I have to admit, though, that the lyrics to Shania's "You're Still the One" probably fits us better.

     

    Looks like we made it 

    Look how far we've come my baby 
    We mighta took the long way 
    We knew we'd get there someday 

    They said, "I bet they'll never make it" 
    But just look at us holding on 
    We're still together still going strong 

    Chorus: 
    (You're still the one) 
    You're still the one I run to 
    The one that I belong to 
    You're the one I want for life 
    (You're still the one) 
    You're still the one that I love 
    The only one I dream of 
    You're still the one I kiss good night 

    Ain't nothin' better 
    We beat the odds together 
    I'm glad we didn't listen 
    Look at what we would be missin'

     
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    @krissycake

    @LadyGoodman

    I like Lucky, by Jason Mraz as well!!!

    Such a sweet song!

     
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    elusivephoto    October 28, 2011   Leesburg, VA

    Okay - here's a couple of more offbeat songs, we're long distance across a continent and both have been VERY appropriate.

    "Smile" - Chris Rice

    How far are you, how close am I?
    I know your words are true and I don't feel them inside.
    Still I believe you'll never leave,
    So where are you now?

    You're all I have, You're all I know.
    Your breath is breathing in my soul.
    Still I am gasping, aching, asking
    Where are you now?

    Cause I just wanna be with You,
    I just want this waiting to be over.
    I just want to be with You,
    And it helps to know the Day is getting closer.

    Every minute takes an hour,
    Every inch feels like a mile,
    Til I won't have to imagine,
    And I finally get to see You smile.

    My journey's here, but my heart is there.
    So I dream and wait, and keep the faith, while you prepare,
    Our destiny, til You come back for me
    Oh, please make it soon...

    "Oh, It Is Love" - Hellogoodbye

    Oh dear
    It's been hardly a moment
    And you are already missed
    There is still a bit of your skin
    That I've yet to have kissed
    Oh say please do not go
    But you know, oh, you know that I must
    Oh say I love you so
    But you know, oh, you know you can trust
    We'll be holding hands once again
    All our broken plans I will mend
    I will hold you tight so you know
    It is love from the first
    Time I pressed my hand into yours
    Thinking oh is it love?

    Oh, dear, it's been hardly three days
    And I'm longing to feel your embrace.
    There are several days
    Until I can see your sweet face.
    Oh say, wouldn't you like to be older and married with me
    Oh say, wouldn't it be nice to know right now that we'll be
    Someday holding hands in the end
    All our broken plans will have been
    I will kiss you soft so you know
    It is love from the first
    Time I pressed my lips against yours
    Thinking oh is it love?

     
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    rachaelrobin    January 16, 2011   Philadelphia

    i like 'somewhere out there' from an american tail.

     
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    Miss Chicken Wing    September 1, 2012   VA

    This one is a blast from the past, but it was a LDR love song for a past boyfriend and me:  "Right Here Waiting" by Richard Marx.  Don't care too much for the ex, but the song is still beautiful and I'll still belt it out if I hear it on the radio, LOL!

    Oceans apart, day after day,
    And I slowly go insane.
    I hear your voice on the line,
    But it doesn't stop the pain.

    If I see you next to never,
    How can we say forever?

    Wherever you go,
    Whatever you do,
    I will be right here waiting for you.
    Whatever it takes,
    Or how my heart breaks,
    I will be right here waiting for you.

    I took for granted, all the times
    That I though would last somehow.
    I hear the laughter, I taste the tears,
    But I can't get near you now.

    Oh, can't you see it baby?
    You've got me goin' crazy...

    Wherever you go,
    Whatever you do,
    I will be right here waiting for you.
    Whatever it takes,
    Or how my heart breaks,
    I will be right here waiting for you.

    I wonder how we can survive
    This romance.
    But in the end, if I'm with you,
    I'll take the chance...

    Oh, can't you see it baby?
    You've got me goin' crazy...

    Wherever you go,
    Whatever you do,
    I will be right here waiting for you.
    Whatever it takes,
    Or how my heart breaks,
    I will be right here waiting for you.

     
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    rubybelle    August 16, 2012   ohio

    hi everyone :)

     

    has anyone ever head the song 10 hours by warren barfield? me and my boyfriend were in a LDR for 1.5 years (and will be again for 3 months this summer...hrmph.) and absolutely fell in love with this song. it's been his ringtone for 2 years now and i doubt i'll ever be able to change it - such a comfort when i hear it!:)

     

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMGdeWkyZTU&feature=related

    There's ten hours between us tonight
    And I feel like my heart will break
    Cause it's been way too long
    Since I've last seen your face
    What I'd give if you were here with me now
    And I was lost in your touch
    If I know my heart
    There's nothing I've ever wanted so much

    But to love you
    Just to love you
    It's all I wanna do

    There's ten hours between us tonight
    And I feel like I could die
    But all the pain would just
    Go away if I could look in your eyes

    And love you
    Just love you
    It's all I wanna do

    Cause I know you're the one
    That I've been praying for
    I could love you for a thousand years
    And wish for a thousand more

    There's ten hours between us tonight
    But tonight can only last so long
    By twelve o'clock tomorrow baby
    You'll be here in my arms

    And I'll hold you close to my heart
    And I pray you feel my love
    Until that day when time or space
    Will never again separate us

    And I'll love you
    Oh, I'll love you
    It's all I'll ever do
    Cause I know you're the one
    It just feels so right
    Would it be ok with you
    If I loved you for the rest of my life

     

    another good one by warren barfield is 'love is not a fight.' :)

     

     
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    Miss PumpkinPenguin    September 5, 2010   NC

    the major reason we love our first dance song so much is because it was very significant to us when we were long-distance.  it's 'patience' by guns n roses.  i highlighted the parts that mean the most to us.

    PATIENCE

    Shed a tear 'cause I'm missing you
    I'm still alright to smile
    Girl, I think about you every day now

    Was a time when I wasn't sure
    But you set my mind at ease
    There is no doubt you're in my heart now
    Said woman take it slow
    It'll work itself out fine
    All we need is just a little patience
    Said sugar make it slow
    And we'll come together fine
    All we need is just a little patience
    (inhale) Patience...
    Ooh, oh, yeah

    Sit here on the stairs
    'Cause I'd rather be alone
    If I can't have you right now, I'll wait dear
    Sometimes, I get so tense
    But I can't speed up the time
    But you know, love, there's one more thing to consider
    Said woman take it slow
    Things will be just fine
    You and I'll just use a little patience
    Said sugar take the time
    'Cause the lights are shining bright
    You and I've got what it takes to make it
    We won't fake it, Oh never break it
    'Cause I can't take it

    I want to dance to it now, now, now!

     
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    SarahDani    October 15, 2011   Fresno

    I think our first dance will be Miranda Lambert's Making Plans. The song just seemed to fit us, especially since we're LDR and ALWAYS making plans for the next visit/phone call/holiday etc :)

     
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    bryanneb61    May 5, 2012   Columbus, Ohio

    I *love* Such Great Heights, especially the Iron and Wine version.  It really is the perfect LDR song.  It was very significant for my boy and I when we did 6 months of long distance at the beginning of our relationship, and I'm sure it will help get me through the year of LDR that we have coming our way soon.

    I always thought of it as more of a "walking down the aisle" song than a first dance song, but I think it would work either way.

     
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    nycbrde2011    June 29, 2012  

    Distance and Time Alicia Keyes is very fitting!

     

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