(Closed) Leaving a little girl out? (Sorry if this is in the wrong board)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1775 posts
Buzzing bee

@miss.wiggums:  Could you make her a junior Bridesmaid or Best Man too??


They would have SO much fun together.

Post # 4
383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Why don’t you have her as kind of a junior bridesmaid?

She could do something like carry a sign…

Even if it’s by herself, it could be cute!

I dunno, just an idea (:

Post # 6
973 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Holding a sign would make her Important and involved in your special day!  I think it’s an awesome idea!

Post # 7
581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Do you have a guestbook/ gift attendant?  It’s not as exciting, but it does give her something to do.

Post # 8
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think the junior bridesmaid idea is the only way to make her as equal to the other kids. A ten year old will know she’s not as important if you give her guest book attendant. At the end of the day what’s one more junior bridesmaid compared to hurting her self esteem.

Post # 11
1306 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Honestly, I think you ahould involve the sisters equally (2 as flower girls, the other as a junior bridesmaid along with your little sister)


Not involve any of the three sisters. I would be devestated if my two sisters were asked to be in a wedding along with my best friend, but I was only good enough to be a guest book attendant.

If you do not have a ring bearer, maybe you can have your little sister (junior BM) carry the rings to make her a little more significant than the other junior Bridesmaid or Best Man (the friend)?

Post # 13
7904 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

I’d call her a junior bridesmaid and give her the sign-holding responsability.

Post # 14
102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

How about making the youngest little girl the flower girl & the two older sisters hold a sign, one on each side? 

Post # 15
1029 posts
Bumble bee

@Britk:  Those kids are freaking adorable, especially the expression on the boy’s face! 🙂

Post # 16
98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’d go junior bridesmaid or something like that. Guestbook attendant would be boring, even to me (and I’m “all grown up”).

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