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Leaving the church--what to toss???

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    hdiehl      

    Bees, I am starting to think about what to do as my fiance and I leave the church ceremony (i.e. confetti, bubbles, birdseed, rice...).  My church has specified that birdseed and rice are a "no-no", and I'm really not too fond of the bubbles idea.  What are you all doing?  Have you been to any (or many) weddings where there wasn't anything used at this time?  Anything else creative?  Thanks!!!

     
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    MissEdamame    July 2009  

    We're getting married on the 4th of July, so we're actually having the guests light sparklers and line the path we'll walk to the vintage 1967 Rolls Royce we'll be leaving the wedding in

     
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    We're using dried lavender petals (oh boy does it smell GOOD in the closet where we're keeping those right now).  Of course, they might be a no no if birdseed and rice are...

     
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    djmaddiebluedog    06/06/09   Connecticut

    brides that can't have a 'toss' tend to use wedding wands:

    http://thebridescafe.typepad.com/my_weblog/2008/06/post-18.html 

     
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    Samisomsam    March 13, 2010   Longview, WA

    What about flower petals or lavender?

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    I have seen/heard of alot of things: flower petals, olive tree leaves/sprigs, and there is this awesome stuff called ecofetti since you can't throw real confetti :)   

    http://www.ecoparti.com/toec.html

    Also, as a spin, I have heard of couples not throwing something, but rather having everyone ring bells, or blow party whistles.

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    MsHymanRoth    October 24, 2009   Boston

    I like the sparklers idea, but I'd be afraid lol

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    tatrifon    2/13/10   nyc

    I love the sparklers idea.  If my wedding wasn't indoors I would totally do that! Flower petals are nice too!

     
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    Samisomsam    March 13, 2010   Longview, WA

    I also liked the sparkler idea and was thinking about it, but I don't want to go up in flames if a spark lands on my dress.

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    We're also going the sparkler route, but we were advised to get 20inch sparklers. The short ones will all burn out by the time everyone has lighted their sparklers!

    As for the burn factor: sparklers are harmless. I highly doubt the sparks could cause anyone to burst into flames... lol unless you've doused yourself in gasoline or a whole can of hairspray! :)

     
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    LittleBear    June 28, 2009   Chicago/beach wedding in NC

    I have been to a few weddings with sparklers and my only advice would be to have multiple people in the crowd with lighters.

     
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    liztwinz    10/17/2009   SW Georgia

    We also have a no throw rule from our church and our brunch reception is in the social hall-since it's daytime, anything lit-glowsticks, sparklers, etc. are a no too-we ended up going with bubbles. Sigh. Not terribly unique or anything, but they do make pretty pictures and if we have any left over, I can use them at home with my own children or use them at school with my class since I teach elementary grades special ed.-we are ALL about bubbles in my classroom. :) I did see something on one of the wedding shows, um-Who's Wedding Is It Anyway-where the bride made ribbons that went on dowel rods or something to wave at/over the couple as they were leaving-that might be a neat effect.

     
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    cj2009    Sept 2009   Bay Area, Cali

    I'm thinking about using pinwheels. maybe that will work?

     
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    Writesel2be1010    10/10/2010   Goodlettsville, tn

    Sparklers will produce some amazing pictures, especially if your exit is when its kinda dark...

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    At the place I'm getting married, apparently they had somebody catch on fire! Well, their dress. So...no more sparklers, there! Boo! So be careful everyone! Apparently it's enough to ignite

     
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    MsHymanRoth    October 24, 2009   Boston

    I want everyone to toss rose petals at us as we come down the aisle.

     

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