(Closed) Left Hanging

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
8884 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Sorry you are dealing with all this.  Something is VERY suspicious about the ex-gf, it sounds like perhaps he gave her a reason to move.

Sit down with him and calmly tell him that enough is enough. You have waited a long time and you need the commitment. He needs to be serious and give you some answers instead of flipping out. Something sounds very off about him. If he can’t give you the answers, it’s probably time to walk.

Post # 4
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2961 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I don’t know why you are even engaged to this guy. Love is nice, but so is being treated decently. I have no advice, only my sincere wishes for the best of luck!

 

Post # 6
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2840 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@trueblue14:  +1  And I think you need to leave him ASAP. This isn’t healthy love.

Post # 7
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1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Unfortunately, it doens’t sound like he wants to marry you.  I think it’s time you started living your life and found someone worth sharing it with.

Post # 8
Member
1583 posts
Bumble bee

@lefthanging:  You aren’t engaged, that is a promise ring. An engagement means you are planning to be married, not dating still.

I say talk to this woman to get her side, then talk to him for his. THEN, if it still doesnt sit right, all three of you talk together.

Next, if you still want to be with him invite him to the court house for your wedding.

Post # 9
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7312 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

Why do you want to marry someone who picks fights with you and tells you that you are insecure? If you had a daughter involved in this type of situation, would you tell her to go ahead and marry the guy? Just because you love him, that does not mean that it is a healthy relationship or the right relationship for you right now. Be smart. You know what needs to be done here.

 

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