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Legal Bees - question about ceremony officiated by a judge

posted 10 months ago in Legal
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    GreenGables    September 1, 2012  

    I feel slightly lame that I haven't been able to figure out the answer to this question (being a Legal Bee myself), but I imagine it's not a common dilemma.  Hopefully one of you ladies can help.

    FI and I are of the Christian faith but don't attend church regularly and aren't close with any ministers.  We don't want to rent a random officiant, which would be very impersonal for us, so one idea we have is to ask a family friend who is a Superior Court judge to officiate our ceremony (at a venue - not a courthouse wedding).

    So my question is, since he would be officiating in his capacity as a judge (as that's what gives him the authority to perform the marriage in the first place), to what extent, if any, can I incorporate religion into the ceremony?  This wouldn't necessarily involve him referencing God or religion (though it might, if he's allowed to do so) - I'm talking along the lines of having someone else do some religious readings during the ceremony.  Does this pose any problems considering his position as a member of the bench?  I could just ask him about this, but frankly I don't want to sound stupid!

    (We're in California, btw.)  Thanks, guys!

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    There are no laws against judges preciding over religious ceremonies. I've seen many ceremonies performed by judges with various levels of religion. It basically comes down to what the judge himself is comfortable with.

     
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    d_mari3    October 1, 2011   Kankakee, Illinois

    yep what CorgiTales said.

     
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    GreenGables    September 1, 2012  

    Sweet, thanks guys!

     

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