Less chairs than guests at Reception. Wait, what??

posted 3 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@The_Future_KB:  This is the worst idea I’ve ever heard of.  Whether there are enough seats or not will not make people dance if they don’t want to.  

I went to a wedding recently where they didnt have enough seats and I thought it was pretty tacky.  

Post # 4
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2878 posts
Sugar bee

Maybe for a 300 guestlist you might think there will be a few no-shows, but 40 chairs for 70 people ? This is ridiculous.

Post # 5
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289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@The_Future_KB:  Please don’t do this. Nobody wants to be standing for the entire evening, especially when they’re eating. If your DJ is really concerned about there being empty seats then tell him he can feel free to pass up on a chair for the evening.

If guests can’t get seats then I think they’ll be more inclined to get tired feet and leave early than anything else. 

Post # 6
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5207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@The_Future_KB:  That’s bullshit lol! EVERY guests deserves a seat. Pictures have nothing to do with it. You don’t host a wedding, with guests, just for the pictures. This guy is a loon.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

as a guest i would be insulted if i were invited to a wedding but not offered a seat… This dude sounds whack…

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@The_Future_KB:  TERRIBLE idea.  I’ve seen places clear chairs and tables after dinner leaving just a few cruisers and chairs around to make more room but I wouldn’t be happy AT ALL if I didn’t have a chair for dinner.  I’m assuming I need an extra table just in case someone unexpected shows at the last minute

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It depends on what type of dinner you are serving.  If it’s a sit-down, then you definitely a chair for every person.  If it is hors-d’oeuvres, then usually you can do less, since the point of those receptions is mingling and movement between stations, etc.

That said…I am doing heavy hors-d’oeuvres, and will probably still have a seat for everyone, even though my venue recommends only 60%.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@The_Future_KB:  Bad idea.

Just ask yourself, would you want to be at a wedding fighting for a seat all night? 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’ve heard the idea brought up on WB before but it’s almost always shot down. If I didn’t have a chair I wouldn’t be mingling. I would be standing in the corner trying to balance my plate and drink and keeping an eagle eye out for someone to get out of their chair.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

@The_Future_KB:  We had seating for about 60 indoors (there was more seating on the patio outside) and it worked great, however we also didn’t serve a meal (heavy hors d’œuvres). If you are serving a meal, you really need to have somewhere for each guest to sit and enjoy it.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@The_Future_KB:  Don’t do it! I went to a wedding that didn’t have enough seating for guests…bad idea. The bride was going for more of a “party” atmosphere, but it didn’t go over well, especially since the crowd was NOT a younger one. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

That sounds like a terrible idea.  Everyone will want/need a chair at some point during the night.  If there’s any concern about empty seats in photos or guests not dancing, why not move some of the chairs to the side after dinner when people have moved to the dance floor?  Even so, I don’t think it’s a big deal if some people prefer to sit down or if there are some empty chairs in pictures.  

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@The_Future_KB:  Well that sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.  Guests won’t notice a few empty chairs when they’re up and about, but they will notice no empty chairs when they want to sit down after dancing.  Shortage of chairs leads to playing musical chairs!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Does your DJ think you’re planning a school dance? If I went to a wedding where I had to play musical chairs in order to sit down, I’d think the hosts were awful. 

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