- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Hi bees…sorry this is kind of a vent. Anyone else have things going wrong that are stressing you out?
Fiance informed me last night that his cousin who was supposed to marry us will not be able to do so because she won’t be an official officiant until Februaury. I was afraid this was going to happen when Fiance wanted to go with her. She works at a church and has been working on this for 5 years but I didn’t want to be in the position of going with her and having no pastor. So before deciding on going with his cousin we went to several churches and found one we liked. We met with the pastor and went through counseling and everything and found out that the pastor requires couples to not live together for 4 months prior to the wedding. We agreed to it thinking we could do it….I moved out and we were wrong…within several days Fiance and I decided that we weren’t going to do it. So that’s when we decided on hoping the cousin could do it and now we officially have no pastor. It is scaring the crap out of me because we are less than three months out and I don’t want to go the Justice of the Peace route. UGH!! Any other bees having things go wrong?