- 9 years ago
- Wedding: April 2009
A little backstory… My family mostly lives in Ontario. My parents moved here before I was born, so I have always lived away from my extended family. Despite the miles, I have always stayed really close with my cousin who is 5 months older than me.. its like, no matter how much time passes we can just pick up and continue where we left off!
During my wedding planning process, I set up a website and it included photos and stories about all of our wedding party. My cousin became interested in on of my husband’s groomsmen and surprisingly he asked about her as well!! Well seeing it as my chance to get her to live closer and help them find love as well.. I decided to help set them up! Now my cousin is an amazing woman! Very independent, financially secure, honest and tons of fun.. and the GM could honestly be her male twin with their similarities! He is also independent, a firefighter and all around good guy who has been really close with my husband for almost 10 years.
Wedding time came and they completely hit it off!! Started a long distance relationship and she has visited 2 more times in the past couple months! They talk all the time and send a zillion texts back and forth and both talk about how much they care about each other. He wants her to move here.. she wants to move too but not until she feels more secure in their relationship…
So today is the day he was supposed to fly to Canada to visit her for the first time. Apparently, he has been kinda acting shady and blowing her off for the last week, not really answering her calls and texts. He text her last night to say he was packed and ready to go but then wouldn’t answer her when she tried calling him.
This morning.. he shoots her a texts saying "i dont have my passport, im not coming". Then refuses to answer any calls or texts!!!! He is lying, we know he has his passport he already told us he did…
Worst part, she planned a mini vacation for them to fly to Vancouver and then go to Whistler.. she spent nearly 3 grand on their flights, hotels, and activities and now he just isnt going!!!!!!
He wont answer my husbands calls either! I have no clue what is going on or why he would do this to her.. she is absolutely devested! Whats worse, is that I would have never figured him to be a flake like that .. my husband said he has always been a great guy!!
Long-Distance ladies.. any insight on why on earth this would happen??? Mostly I just needed to rant because I feel soooo awful this has happened to her…