Let It Out: Who needs to vent today?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Beach

I love this thread lol well it has been sort of a non good day for me too 🙁

1. Couldn’t reach my FI at work the whole day, and he didn’t bother to call or text me even though he knows i had a shitty day at work. Called me an hour before, told me he is still at work (we don’t live together) and that they have major issues and problems and that he cant speak now.

I’m so worried with what might have happened. He still didn’t call me and my head has been spinning like crazy.

2. I had a really bad day at work today. I work in a school as a trainee teacher to take over the KG1 class next semester. My boss had moved me to a KG2 class with a teacher that i hate (very rude long story) and told me it’s for this semester and it would be good opportunity for me. Of course i didn’t believe that because they had just lost an assistant and just wanted me to help out. So i said okay me be it’s good for me. Then today the first day in the new class my boss walks in and says we have hired a new assistant so now you can get back to your class!!!!! Iam happy i got back to my old class but what about all the crap that its better for me ?? so i guess she just needed help till she finds someone else. Uhhhhh i hate my boss and the money is horrible

3. I have insomnia. I cant sleep. I go to bed and my mind begins to think about every single wedding decision there has to be done. I end up sleeping 4 hours later and im so exhausted

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I am one overwhelmed bee! Work-need a better job. School-need better grades. Weightloss-not going well. Money-broke (see need better job). I am so overwhelmed that’s it’s paralyzing and I fall further behind, Ugh!

Post # 6
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309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@alt_bride:  I don’t really need to vent much but maybe I can offer you some comic relief with my small complaint.  My FI pissed in the silverware drawer Friday night while sleep walking.  The silverware drawer.  He is known to find some interesting places while sleep walking but he really outdid himself this time.    

Post # 7
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3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

1. I’m 21 (almost 22) and I am tired of seeing the women I know (21-25) posting their promise rings on social media all the time. What are you trying to prove??? UGH sorry if this offends anyone but it bugs the heck out of me.

2. I just do not have the motivation to study for some of my midterms….This is my final semseter of undergrad. I know I should be working my ass off (I do usually!) but I’m so burnt out. I want to graduate already!

 

@myweddingbee:  have you seen a doctor about your insomia? Maybe they could prescribe something to help? I usually listen to meditation music if my mind is racing. It helps to distract me and I fall asleep faster.

Post # 8
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Beach

@vess5:  hahahahahahaha I cant stop laughing OMG what did you do? Just be careful he doesnt do it on the tv/phone or so 

Post # 10
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Beach

@vess5:  hahahahahahaha I cant stop laughing OMG what did you do? Just be careful he doesnt do it on the tv/phone or so 

Post # 11
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Beach

@prettyinpink11:  No i just guessed it’s normal like that weeks before the big day but i will def. try this music thing 🙂 thank you for the suggestions

Post # 12
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Beach

@prettyinpink11:  No i just guessed it’s normal like that weeks before the big day but i will def. try this music thing 🙂 thank you for the suggestions

Post # 13
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3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@myweddingbee:  your probably right, but hopefully you can get some sleep soon. Congrats on your upcoming wedding!

Post # 14
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31 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2015

ive had a really sucky day .my fiance n i are usually having misunderstandingz that escalate.i cant control my self defensive instinct when he goes off at me,hes in australia and im in another country.he was originally from my home country n has settled in australia since d past 5 years.we r due to marry in 11 months!n we r already having so muxh of these stupid crappy misunderstandings.we love each other so much.but i have startd using the F Word when we fight.n its pathetic my self control withers.hes startd using Fs n Bs too in return 🙁 its happened twice so far.today my father was gonna do 2000$ down payment for the venue n wod lose that money if my visa comes laterthan the wedding date.now the total wedding ezpenses r comin to 9000$ n my fiance is gonna pay 6000$  for my immigration n ticket.n plus well be off to bali for our honeymoon.every penny counts here.now if im begging him to call my dad before he does the downpayment he in turn says to agree to involvin my mom in our problems ( which i dont do ) n to respect his mom ( which i do) he cod have discussed all these things later but not when 2000$ r at stake :@ then he says whats 2000$ when our problems r more imp to solve.these arent problems these r misunderstandins which get escaleted .i getting mad at him,startd off an F word n then d whole

Post # 15
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309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@myweddingbee:  

@alt_bride:  

He was in the other room and I yelled to him calling him by his last name: “Welp, Smith, you’ve really outdone yourself this time” and he said “What do you mean” and I said “Why don’t you come get a spoon for me” and he knew immediately what must have happened.  He felt awful about it, but I was impressed by the movements it took to do it, he opened the drawer, peed, and then closed the drawer, gracefully.  It was all contained in the silverware sorter with no splash or mess outside of that.  This is probably the third time he either did go or almost went somewhere other than the toilet.  Garbage can once, a close call in the refrigerator once.  

This morning I found a huge wet spot on one of the rugs and yelled at him and the dog “Are you guys effing serious!?  One of you is in big trouble!”  But it turned out there was a leak from the ceiling.  You never know with this crew that I live with lol

One of my brothers suffers from the same affliction so he’s lucky I was already familiar and understanding of this phenomenon!  Boys really are gross sometimes.

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