- 7 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
We just got engaged last wednesday 3/23/11!!! and I’m so very happy! until I recieved a text message from my BIL. My fiance and I met because of my BIL who used to work with my fiance. as time went on drama at my fiances work began and my BIL was a “bad” employee and left the job in very bad terms. My BIL was not only a bad employee but has been a really mean/hypocrytical/SOB man, but he is my sisters husband and the father of my 2 neices and nephew. my fiance and BIL have not spoken in almost 3 years. My fiance has told me even before we got engaged that my BIL will not be invited to the wedding. I know that my fiance wants to invite his boss, but unfortunetly I need to invite my BIL, because I have a very small family and want my neices, nephew and sister at my wedding. I have known my BIL and his parents for over 20 years..I think he had a mental break and turned in to Mr. Hyde and Dr. Jekle is no where to be found. My BIL text me saying that he wanted to speak to my Finace to basically put things behind them and to talk. He used to think of him as a “brother” and deep down in side really likes him…it all sounded to good to be true…his motive you ask…Its either his boss our his family! meaning my fiance cant invite his boss because my BIL Mr Hyde will not allow my neices and nephew to participate in the wedding or attend the wedding! He does not know I know that!
I’m dreading with a passion making the guest list!!
How do I tell my fiance this….He has known his boss for over years and its a love hate relationship, but this is my family!! please help!!