Post # 1
I have been with my fiancee for almsot two years and we have lived together for one year. Like most couples we started out doin’ the deed 5+ times per week and now get to it once maybe twice per week. I am trying to figure out why this happens…A couple things that I came up with are that our schedules are much more hectic, we see each other at our grossest moments (see each other more = a lot less sexy all the time lol), we no longer meet up in bars for dates – get drunk and have sloppy drunk sex.
When we do it once or twice per week it always amazing, so i’m not really complaining.
How often do you and your SO, Fiance, Boyfriend or Best Friend, do the deed? How long have you been together?
Sorry if this is Too Much Information for some people. I personally feel that we’re all adults here and sex is a huge part of a healthy marriage 😉
Post # 3
Hmm, maybe about a couple times a month! Sad but true. The other day though, we had sex 3 times in one day! I told him he used up his months worth of sex. 😛
We’ve been together for 4 years.
Post # 4
SO and I don’t live together yet, but generally, we have sex every time we see each other. So 5-6 times a week at least.
ETA: We’ve been together a little less than a year.
Post # 5
I said 2-5, but it really depends. Sometimes, like last week, it was only once due to work schedules, but this week has been better 😉
I’d say we average 3X a week, and we’ve been together almost 3 years. Living together almost 1 year, and engaged almost a year.
Post # 7
We started out doing it almost every day. Now its more like once, maybe twice a week. But, when we first started we worked the same hours and were literally together almost 24/7. Now our schedules are different and when I’m awake, he’s asleep and when he’s awake I’m either at work or asleep.
Post # 8
@allyfally: considering you don’t see each other often, i think that’s pretty good!
Post # 9
We’ve been together for 2.5 years and I said between 2-5 times a week. It really depends on our work schedules and how many times a week he stays with me at my place. Lately I’ve been working like crazy (read: 12 hour days Monday thru Friday plus at least 5 hours on Saturday) it seems like when I’m off, he’s at work and when he’s off I’m at work. I can’t wait until he proposes and he can just move in with me.
Post # 10
haha I like that this is posted in photography. Was not totally sure what I’d see when I opened the thread.
Post # 11
- Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California
We’ve been together for almost 4 years, living together for over 3 years, & married for a few days shy of two months :] ..we have sex on average probably about 3-4 times per week. Sometimes more, sometimes less, but in the beginning it used to be multiple times per day! Like I would come by his place on my lunch break haha.
I think it’s slowed down because before our relationship, neither of us were super sexually active for the few months to a year prior so we were making up for lost time ;]. Plus we both work full time now & during our first year we were both part time so our schedules definitely clash more often.
Post # 12
We have been together for 3 years. In the beginning it was more than the average, I’m talking every single day 2-4 times per day (tmi sorry) and it was fantastic. This lasted for the first year, then it went to aberaging 1-2 times every day until this past year. Now it’s 5-6 times per week so it has slown down but not stopped at all.
We have high sex drives, have and still do. And we keep the romance alive. It’s easy to get wrapped up in the every day life, bills work cleaning errands etc. So we make sure to make time for eachother every day. It would be every day but I work until 11pm and some nights we are both just too tired since he works during the day and gets up early. But most of the time we do it anyways.
Even though we’ve been together three years I still treat the relationship like it’s new. I still try to impress him, I still try to look good for him all the time, I still do what I did in the beginning for the most part, I want the honey moon phase to last as long as it can. And we have a spectacular relationship
Post # 13
@Jellybones: lol i don’t know how to work the internetz :S
Post # 14
@pinkgreenandyellow: that sounds lovely. we sometimes have tooting competitions in bed and then we wrestle each other. romance might be different for everyone hahahah
Post # 15
@bretonvirgniia: Haha I don’t toot in front of him, when I have to use the restroom (number two) I have him take the dogs on a walk, but we wrestle a lot, he’s ticklish and I tickle him and it almost always leads to intimate times 🙂
I do joke about his bathroom habits and he jokes about mine, but we still hide them from eachother lol. You’re brave
Post # 16
We’ve been together over 2 years, but we’ve been only intimate with one another for 3 years. I think we average between 5-9 times a month. Last month was 5 times, due to it being SUPER busy. That’s our lowest in a long time. Average is twice a week, maybe once during “shark week” toward the end. I track it on an app.