Post # 1
For me, long days are every days haha.
I realized the only thing that’s keeping me sane is going to the gym when I can. Sometimes I’ll do it in the mornings, sometimes after I get home. But life gets so exhausting. My fiance also works super late nights, sometimes from 930am-9 pm, getting home at around 10-ish. When he comes home he is just as tired as me. Sometimes when he’s home, I’m already in bed. Some days we don’t even see each other since I leave earlier in the morning.
My only solace these days is working out and taking extremely long, hot showers. I feel like it’s the only time in my day where I can focus on me. I feel horrible saying it, but on the weekdays it’s even exhausting to have sex. Neither of us are really in the mood because we’re just so tired. I seriously hope when I’m no longer in school, this will improve.
How do you decompress after a long day? Any suggestions that are budget friendly? Almost all my girlfriends feel this way about their jobs too, and I feel like all we do is bitch about life together. They seem to prefer drinking, but my body really can’t handle alcohol anymore and I’m trying to cut back to get into shape. I just feel old and tired all the time. 🙁
Post # 2
catpeaches: I go for a run. It doesn’t cost a dime. I run through the park and every day I see something new- the changing color of the trees, the rhododendons displaying a second bloom, the squirrels hiding away nuts etc. I run by the ocean so there is also something to see there. It is totally calming and relaxing.
Post # 3
catpeaches: I’m not sure if this is your thing. But if I’m particularly stressed or emotionally drained, I’ll sit on my back deck, facing my forest of trees and meditate or just let myself daydream and focus my mind on nothing or something positive. It helps, even for 15 minutes. If you don’t have nature around, you can always even just meditate in your room and have a soundtrack playing in the background.
Post # 4
catpeaches: I am definitely feeling your pain today! My commute one way was an hour and 40 minutes long. the return commute, even after staying at the gym for an hour and a half, was an hour. I just feel so overwhelmed with stress, our wedding is coming up in less than 200 days and there is so much to still do. Sigh. I truly don’t know what to do with myself. I feel like my skin is the only thing keeping me from going everywhere at once..I wish I had some sound advice to help but know you’re not alone. My FI doesn’t get off until midnight and I will knocked out by then. Seriously unhappy camper right now.
Post # 5
catpeaches: I go for a run! After that I light some candles and have a bubble bath! 🙂
Post # 6
catpeaches: A long walk and/or decaf green tea. Not to mention petting our dog!
Post # 7
I can’t even imagine working out with that schedule. I do workout 3x week but my hours are a lot less than that, and even then I always feel way too tired to workout (I do it anyway).
I watch TV shows (like 1 episode a day) or if I’m too tired to even sit (it happens) I go to bed and read. I have to use my brain enough for my job that I gave up on reading “intellectual” books ages ago. Now I just read whatever makes me feel good and don’t feel ashamed about reading stuff that many would consider crap. If I have no time to find a new book to read, I just reread something I know I like. It totally works for me. You could read in the tub too!
Post # 8
Just kidding!! I usually go for a run/workout. It helps a whole lot. Then a hot shower afterwards, followed by some reading. Always seem to forget about the long day after that.
Post # 9
I actually feel this way too. I only have a 3 mile commute(!!) but even still I’m working from 7:30 – 6:30/7:00 ish. Then two nights a week I stay late to clean the office for extra cash, and that takes about 3 hours. I work all day on Saturday and about 4 hours on Sunday. I literally go to work and come home to sleep. I’m so exhausted. I barely eat, and basically never see my poor husband. I’m so drained and miss having a life, and a husband.
Post # 10
I love a long walk and bubble bath with a glass of wine. I have no source to cite, but I read that it’s scientifically proven that it’s easier to sleep/relax post orgasm. Hey, that’s definitely budget friendly! 😉
Post # 11
I hear ya!
I have a bath every night. During my busy season I also make sure I’m reading something light. I find that if I’m working late (some days it’s from 8am – 10pm or even 1am!) I need to do something before bed otherwise I will dream about work. Reading helps me switch gears, and it’s good because you don’t have to commit to a certain length of time like you do with TV.
If DH is home, sometimes we just cuddle and talk. It really helps if I’m feeling overwhelmed.
Post # 12
A cup of camomile or peppermint tea and either tv or reading.
Post # 13
A glass of wine and a bath with epsom salts. I’ll set up Netflix on a laptop and watch it from the soaker tub 🙂
Post # 14
catpeaches: I have a glass of wine, a fun sized crunch bar, put on my comfy pjs, and watch an episode of Mad Men
Post # 15
catpeaches: after a really long day I wash my face and sit on the the couch with a beer or a glass of wine and watch a new episode of my favorite show. It’s hard for me to do anything productive for at least an hour… or two.