Weddingbee boards

Thank you very much for the advice and different options.  I am extremely overwhelmed(but you wouldn't be able to tell right?LOL)

I do have to stick to 3, just to avoid having to call everyone to change.  I'm thinking i'm going to keep the meatballs, have the pasta salad and regular salad w/ salad dressings and a lunch meat tray(diy) i can just buy the lunch meat and roll it up on a tray with cheese and have rolls, which can also be used for the meatballs i guess i should also have crackers. Since my FI doesn't really like sweets I have to have something there that he can snack on.  I'm thinking of an intimate dinner with just us and the bridal party(including us that's 6) and our parents after we leave the church. We can then go back to our original plan, before all this turned crazy, and just have a barb-q outside this summer(or not--will all this headache i think i may say forget it :)!!) thanks for your help..i'll keep posts going as i find out more. if i don't hear back from the hall by wednesday--i'm going to go w/ plan b. i can't drink at the church but i sure will once we get to dinner!! gee wiz..:)