(Closed) lights on or off

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: On or Off
    Yes always : (57 votes)
    25 %
    No i don't want him to see me : (25 votes)
    11 %
    Sometimes : (145 votes)
    64 %
  • Post # 3
    3059 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    Everyone looks good in candlelight!!

    Post # 4
    363 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    We don’t like bright lights on but quite often have a lamp on or do it during daytime so he sees everything. Guys are visual they like to see what’s happening. It doesn’t bother me anymore he likes what he sees otherwise he wouldn’t want me like he does so I try not to over think it. 

    Post # 5
    3697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I don’t flip them on if it’s 1am, but if it’s 3pm on Saturday I don’t run around shutting off the lights and hanging blackout curtains. 

    Post # 6
    853 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We’ve never done it in the dark! Could be fun to try, but we like to see each other and what we’re doing.

    Post # 7
    2874 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    if we’re doing it literally just before going to sleep then off, otherwise on…doesnt bother me

    Post # 8
    5967 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Lights on…all the time, every time…I’ll even get up to turn them on…hey, it’s a show worth seeing!

    Post # 9
    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Depends on what’s happening. We’ve gone from pitch black to outside in the midday sun (in a private place, admittedly) and everything in between. 

    Post # 10
    7462 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I don’t care either way.

    Post # 12
    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I’ve never felt the need to hide my body from him. I don’t really pay attention to the lights. If they’re already off, I may leave them off. If they are already on, then I leave them on. Usually lights are on though.

    Post # 13
    4439 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    My answer to the poll question would be ‘off’ but I didn’t answer because it’s not because I don’t want him to see me!

    Post # 14
    1850 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Lights ON! Bow chicka wow wow.

    Post # 15
    2759 posts
    Sugar bee

    I prefer them on, but I don’t mind off so long as there’s some source of light. I like to see my partner’s face and I also enjoy putting on a bit of a show for him lol. I know most guys I’ve been with have enjoyed watching me, so why would I deny them that pleasure? Plus, sex is weird and awkward, so it’s good to see what you’re doing lol.

    Post # 16
    246 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Off with a mood light or a couple of candles. Super romantic and it makes me feel less self-concious, but he still can ogle as he pleases. 

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