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posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@outgoingcutie15:  hopefully the new spot you joined will better identify with your issues. I think most of us here are at a different point in our lives than you are (aiming towards marriage ect)however, hope whatever advice weve given has helped you!

Post # 4
Member
163 posts
Blushing bee

I hope the new website is more helpful for you!

Post # 5
Member
1389 posts
Bumble bee

I think that is a good idea.  Your posts are not wedding related.  You will find better responses at a non-wedding themed website.

Post # 6
Member
2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@outgoingcutie15:  That’s great that you were able to find a site more suited to your lifestyle. I wish there was a “Teen Spot” for those in their 20s and 30s, but for now, the NWR section of WB suffices.

Good luck! Hope you find all the info you need there!

Post # 7
Member
2766 posts
Sugar bee

@outgoingcutie15:  I think I can speak for a lot of Bees when I say this comes as a bit of a relief. WeddingBee is not really the right place for you, as I think you’ve probably guessed. I hope you can find better advice and people who relate to you and your life crises better at this new forum. Though I also do suggest speaking with your therapist about your internet usage altogether and coming up with an action plan to learn etiquette and boundaries online (and off).

Best of luck!

Post # 11
Member
3693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@outgoingcutie15:  That message board tells you that you can’t discuss pets, interior decorating, holidays, travelling, or collegs? How many questions do you often have about interior decorating, pets, and holidays?

Post # 12
Member
6964 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@outgoingcutie15:  I’m going to echo other bees and really encourage you to talk to your therapist about your internet usage and boundaries. This thread itself is totally unneeded and announcing which topics you will and will not post about here is honestly a little weird. Please talk to her. 

Post # 13
Member
4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@MexiPino:  You actually think she’s seeing a therapist? Seems like yet another (successful) “give-me-responses” thread to me :-/ I think any therapist would have told her parents to pull her computer out of her room by now.

Post # 14
Member
6964 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@badabing88:  I’m only going on what she said in her thread about how many facebook friends one should have. There she stated that her therapist said she had to cut it down because of drama, so she asked bees who we keep and who we cut. 

ETA: I was really tempted to flag this as a “flounce” post, but I don’t think it technically is… even though it’s serving the same purpose. 

Post # 15
Member
3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@badabing88:  will this ever end?? 

It really bothers me when people clog up the boards with stupid shit. This isn’t a place for free therapy. Grrr. 

Post # 16
Member
3693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

 The best advice anyone can give you is to find some real-life  age and interest appropriate friends and shut the computer.  You’ve put yourself in positions to be taken advantage of multiple times and you seem to have done boundary issues on the internet.  Try to find a club or something that revolves around one of your interests. I don’t think a wedding planning forum is where you’re going to find appropriate friends,  and posting questions about pets, holidays, interior design, etc  isn’t wedding related which is really the core purpose of this forum.  Does your therapist know that you post here?  It might be helpful to bring her print outs of some of your posts here.

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