Post # 1
Anyone else finding themselves short on time?? Three months until the wedding and I am getting a bit anxious! And just feeling TOO busy! Every day I’m doing 1235352 things, with work, household stuff, wedding stuff, exercising… I never have enough time to do everything I want to, the house is a mess, things are half done. And when things go wrong it feels like I’m more stressed than usual, cos everything is just getting to me!
Then people are forever telling me how close the wedding is, and it stresses me out!
Just wanted to get that out…
Post # 3
I feel you! I am less than 1 month away and I can’t even believe how fast time has gone! We are getting married in New England, going on a honeymoon, and then immediately flying to South Florida (where we live now) to pack up all of our things and move back north. And hopefully somewhere in there we will find a place to live and finish wedding prepareations! I’ve been keeping a level head by making lots of lists and taking things 1 day at a time. Make a master schedule and you’ll realize you’ve got more time than you think. You can do it!!!
Post # 4
Hi date twin! I feel like I have nothing to do, which scares me! There is probably something huge I am forgetting and can’t figure out what for the life of me. Take a deep breath! It’ll all come together. I do still have a few big things to do if only I could FI to sit down and do them with me (i.e. honeyoon, you’d think he would be excited and want to plan). Hugs!
Post # 5
YES!! Definitely feeling the same way here! It seems like I get one thing accomplished, and I can’t enjoy that because I’m already stressing over the next thing to do.
FI is no help…he’s got that “everything is fine, we have plenty of time” attitude. Been trying to kick him in the butt to get things moving that he’s responsible for!!
Post # 6
My past strategy of zoning out on wedding stuff for a month at a time won’t work anymore. 🙁 I’m stressing about the silliest things now, stationary for the tables, a sign for the bar, how I can make cute I spy signs like I found here. I am signed up for a desktop publishing class in school and I’m thinking maybe I’ll just do all that in August when the course starts. According to the task manager on the knot, I have 116 to-dos yet. Why do I even check on that?
I put FI in charge of sound equipment and tables for the ceremony. It might be a very quiet wedding ceremony. With A unity candle on the floor. Oh well!
Post # 7
@Britterscotch: 116 to-dos! Ouch. I’m sure we have a similar number 🙁
Things were starting to get on top of me last week but work has quietened down and I can finally (and literally) breathe properly again!
Post # 8
Couldn’t agree more!! This wedding is driving me bananas & I hate to say it but I just want the day to be here so my entire life is not consumed with wedding to-dos! It just doesn’t feel fun anymore :/
Not to mention I’m saving all my time off for the honeymoon but I just need a vacation already!!! Ahhhh!!!