- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2014
I have had a lot of ups and downs with this wedding and I think this one may be my lowest yet. I’m starting to feel a little overwhelmed.
I’m young and starting May 23 I will be back in school full time until May 2013. I’m getting married August 2012.
To begin with, I had the idea that I could plan everything on my own. Two of my bridesmaids who had offered to help me dropped out and are no longer speaking to me. My mother has been everything but helpful. My Future Mother-In-Law has been the only person who has offered to help but she and Future Father-In-Law just moved, both are unemployed, Future Mother-In-Law is having health problems as well as family problems and I feel awful asking her to help me with more than one or two things at a time.
I’ve tried speaking to my mother and asking her to help me, but she avoids the subject or tells me I have plenty of time. So I suppose she’s not going to do anything.
I suppose I’m panicking a little too early but I’m a procrastinator by nature and I don’t want things to get worse.
I know I can’t be the only one who’s had to plan their wedding with very little or no help at all.
So, I need someone to tell me how they did it without going absolutely crazy.