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LIVELY first dance songs?

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    kag5079    October 20, 2012  

    The fiancee and I are not a "slow dance" kind of couple. True, we're not looking to do a salsa for our first dance, but we'd like something that's a little livelier than the traditional fare. Frankly, I'm getting frustrated with every wedding website that suggests "Embraceable You" or "At Last." Yes, those are classics, but can anyone think of anything a little more upbeat for a first dance song?

    We don't really have any one song that's "special" to us aside from The Beach Boys' "Wouldn't It Be Nice," which doesn't lend itself to dancing. Suggestions? Preferably with a link to youtube or something! Thanks!!

     
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    Leprechaun    April 9, 2011   Dayton, OH (wedding in South Bend, IN)

    What about the Beach Boys "God Only Knows"? I think the lyrics are really wedding-appropriate, and the tempo could work too. I wanted to use it for our first dance, but it was a little too fast for my husband, who wanted more of a slow waltz type song.

     
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    Gabrielle123    November 5, 2011  

    we actually used "god only knows" as the anniversary dance song. DH and his mom danced to that say hey (i love you) song...here it is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MU9naM5L8L4

     
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    MissTiger    May 1, 2013   Panama City, Fl

    Some people have been using Single Ladies (put a ring on it) by Beyoncé as a funny/silly upbeat song, I find it funny.

     
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    MissCallieJean       NY

    I don't know if you like country music but Honeybee is a great song by Blake Shelton.

    Even if your not a fan of country give it a try anyway, my friend is not a country fan but ended up having a country song as her first dance, she loved the song so much!

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    Michael Buble - "Save The Last Dance For Me"

    Michael Buble - "Everything"

    Ray LaMontagne - "You Are The Best Thing"

    Queen - "You're My Best Friend"

    Straight No Chaser - "You're My Best Friend"

     

     
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    KnisleyToBee    August 2013  

    I'm just going to throw this song out there because it is just too sweet, so if you do decide to go with a "slower" song, I recently found a song called "She's Mine" by Brett Dennen. Give it a try, maybe, if you want to? :)

    Check out some classic Frank Sinatra songs like "The Song is You." The roaring orchestra is so upbeat and makes you just want to dance! There's so many good oldies out there that are SO fun!

    P.S. I think you might like "Sweet Pea" by Amos Lee. That would be a cute and lively, more up-beat song. Best wishes on this song hunt! 

     
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    sarasouth    March 10, 2012   Raleigh, NC

    "You're The First, The Last, My Everything" by Barry White. It is so fun and sweet and bouncy!

     
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    lumos    June 17, 2012  

    @sarasouth: Great suggestion :)

     
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    summerteeth    December 10, 2011   Illinois

    We are leaving the chapel to Cake's 'Love You Madly'  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_jPuASK3FE&ob=av2n

     

    Not quite a 'romantic' upbeat song, but sweet and goofy & most importantly us, nonetheless... :) 

     
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    Shoppingdixie    September 17, 2010   New York

    OUr first dance was "Happy Together" by the Turtles.  We did a foxtrot with a couple swing moves to it.

     

     

     
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    Conchi    June 23, 2012   Torremolinos

    We have no special song and don't do slow dancing......we're seriously considering the you and me song by the wannadies ..... just have to decide how we could ever possibly dance to it haha

     

     
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    winter88    June 16, 2012  

    How about "You Make My Dreams Come True" by Hall and Oates?

     
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    Christine4RN    August 18, 2012   LaCrosse ,Wi

    We are using Tesla" Love Song", which starts out with a slow guitar solo, but then escalates to lighter raising, swaying rock ballad. ok we are biker trash and needed to put "our brand" on a elegant vintage wedding!

    http://www.youtube.com/artist/Tesla?feature=watch_video_title

     
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    ginnyc    April 30, 2011   Madison, WI

    We did "Blue Skies" by Willie Nelson.  It has a nice tempo and has not been overplayed.  Plus DH is a pilot so it worked out perfectly!

     
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    spartal    April 21, 2012   Toronto

    Can’t get enough of your love by Barry White! I wanted it to be my first dance song but FI vetoed it because he thinks it’s a baby-making song.

     
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    kateb0293    March 10, 2012   Schaumburg, IL

    Can't go wrong with Michael Buble!

     
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    Mrs.D-To-Be    September 8, 2012   Los Angeles, CA

    It's a little Broadway but I love Harry Connick, Jr.'s "A Wink and A Smile". 

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zpCp9G9pu-A

     
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    mrsberry2011    April 14, 2012   Atlanta, GA

    Im dancing to Love On Top by Beyonce. its has an upbeat tempo and very flirty. we didnt want the slow sleepy first dance either

     
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    kag5079    October 20, 2012  

    Wow! Thanks for all the suggestions, bees! This will definitely give me a lot to ask FI to listen to over the winter holiday :-) I'll probably enjoy that more than he will... haha

     
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    Aug2012bride    August 18, 2012  

    @mrsberry2011:

    I want to use Love on Top as well. I was a bit concerned because it talks about fighting through the tears, but overall I think it works great and so upbeat.

     
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    Dolldancer8    August 17, 2013   Florida

    Also try our song...go on YouTube and type in forever by John stamos and the beach boys...it's INCREDIBLE!!!!

     
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    Ashley_B    September 22, 2012  

    @winter88:  Golden!

     
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    jlivings    October 22, 2011  

    1234 by the Plain White Tees, and it isn't a long song. Bonus!

     
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    Miss Ke Aloha    May 27, 2012   Honolulu, HI

    Ziggy Marley   "I Love You Too"

     
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    Anise      

    "Wouldn't it be nice?" sounds like a swing song to me, which is definitely upbeat and fun.

    Michael Buble's cover of "Sway" would be good as a rumba. (also done famously by Dean Martin)

    Michael Buble used to be a wedding singer, so many of his songs (both the covers and his original stuff) can fit a wedding fairly well.  I really love his version of "Some Kind of Wonderful" also.

    For something more contemporary, what about "Good Life" by OneRepublic?

     
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    irish0680    October 7, 2012   San Diego, CA

    I'm trying to figure out how we can use Feist's Mushaboom...  Love that song!

     

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