Lonely in LDR. Any lonely Bees tonight?

posted 3 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 2
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I am in the same boat..my FI works in Alberta and is gone a couple weeks at a time. I was really feeling it last night (friday). I drank a bottle of wine and went to bed..lol!

I NEVER NEVER would have pictured myself as the type to be in a LDR. Nor would have any of my friends and we are going on 5 years like this. When he first started he was gone for 3 months or longer. Not that it helps now, even with him only gone for a couple at a time.

 

Post # 3
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225 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I’m sorry you’re feeling lonely!

Me and my FI were long distance for a very long 2 years. 6 months UK/US, 3 months Cali/Iowa, and the rest  about an hour apart only seeing each other on the weekends. Now we live together but he works 50-60 hours a week and we never have a day off together and it’s STILL rough. Obviously not across an ocean rough, but I miss him. Just found out yesterday he’s being sent out of town for about a week for his job again. ~sigh~

Hang in there, girls.

Post # 4
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266 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Ugh, LDRs.  FI and I started dating my last year of high school. I went to Alaska then Texas for college and now I live in Illinois.  He is finishing up university back home in Michigan. 

We have been doing this LDR thing for 10 years, only seeing each other on summer and Xmas breaks.  It’s easier now as I’m out of college and driving up to my parents’ house for wedding stuff.  We meet up to do wedding stuff and attempt to have date nights.  He’s graduating in May and moving in with me shortly after.  It’ll be nice to be in the same state and together finally.  The plus side is that we have AWESOME communication lol.  I now hate the telephone!

Post # 5
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532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

FutureMrsGeek:  know the feeling! My FI Left 2 days ago for offshore. Had just gotten used to having him home again!

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

I travel a lot for my job… I’m gone for almost two weeks right now, and when I get home, my husband will be gone on a family trip – and he doesn’t get back until after I leave for another week and a half. I basically won’t see him all month :/

So, I hear ya! Sorry you’re feeling lonely. I’m watching some tv that he doesn’t like, which makes this a little more fun. 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m down at college in Florida. My FI is back in our hometown in New Jersey. I’m spending the night working on homework and watching sitcoms he hates.

We are closing the distance permanently on May 2nd. After 3 years of this “LDR during the school year, living together during the summers and breaks” I’m ready to be done.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

FutureMrsGeek:  aww no thats awful! My FI does month on month off. But even then he can go away early or come back later due to crewing, weather or travel issues so it can be hard to plan things. 

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