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posted 4 months ago in Long Distance Relationships
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    Silentlove    May 19, 2013   West Virginia

    I just don't think my boyfriend gets it. He tells me he got me a gift, and it got lost in the mail and sent it out on Saturday the day before Christmas. Here it is New Years and still no gift. I'm a little upset over this, and it's so silly because I feel ungrateful but the thing that is eating me up is the fact that it's out there in never, neverland. Did he just go there, and think "Well it's late anyways, why rush?" 

    My co-workers agree that was kind of bad on his part. I don't know. I'm just venting because I don't want to say much else to him on the matter because I pretty much texted every single day, "Not here yet....." Honestly, I wish he'd just said he didn't get me anything. I'm sure I'll be happy when I get it, but still frustraiting to have to wait. Still waiting on the engagement thing too. 

     

    Thanks for letting me vent in this late...oh early hour and Happy New Year. I'm just curious, would anyone else be a little upset or annoyed over the matter?

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    Oh, I'm sorry you didn't get anything. I will keep my fingers crossed that it shows up bright and early tuesday morning. I know how disappointing that can be, especially the just not knowing. I hope you New Year is better. ((HUGS))

     
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    misskoala    July 23, 2011   married in Georgia/living in Portland, OR

    It really could have gotten lost in the mail. If that's the case he needs to go about filing a claim so he can get his money back and buy you another gift, or the same gift again.

    FedEx lost some gifts that I sent home for Christmas this year.

     
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    mcklough    August 18, 2012   Oneonta NY

    if it makes you feel any better I mailed something on December 17th and they still haven't been recieved

     
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    strawbabies    December 19, 2011   wedding in St. Augustine, FL

    Did he pay for tracking on the package?  

     
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    Silentlove    May 19, 2013   West Virginia

    Never got a chance to update because google chrome apparently doesn't work well with the site?? But, I'm happy to say I got my gift =) The mail was...oddly slow. BUT, I got a placeholder ring for Christmas. It's a Tinkerbell ring from the bradford exchange. Absolutely love it!

     
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    elley2012    February 14, 2009   scotland

    Aww im sorry to hear that. Excuses like that just make me think they didn't bother. And that would annoy me. i know how you feel. We got nothing from my mother-in-law for christmas.

    I've gotten very angry about that, After we went out of our way to send them a box of presents  *grrrr*

     

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