- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2016
Hi Bees! I need your advice on this crazy idea that I’ve had to celebrate my FI’s 25th birthday.
We are a long-distance couple, and I will be working the weekend of his birthday so I cannot travel to go and see him, and when I asked him what was he doing for his 25th bday, he said “nothing”. Also, he is moving out to a new place with roommates the day before. So, I found it really sad that he would spend his own 25th bday alone… and I felt so bad… so I was wondering if it would be a good idea to write to some of his “new” friends on Facebook, tell them about his birthday cause FI probably didn’t tell anyone about it, and ask the roommates to help me organize a little party at the new place for him?? Of course I have no idea if the roommates are ok with a party in their new appartment so I would write to them first. and then I could invite extra friends? Last year when we were not LDR I organized a surprise bday party but FI learned about it XD but this time he would have no way to know I am organizing it ahah.
What do you think? Is this crazy and awkward or is it an idea you like? Would you like to have a surprise party that way? Would you get mad your FI told everyone about your bday without your consent? …Or should I just do something only the 2 of us over Skype as usual xD
Thank you so much for your advice!!
- This topic was modified 2 years, 8 months ago by thesummerangel.